Category: phone sex training

“Let’s make it a reality” Big Mistake!

Almost every day I see this statement on new phone sex operator’s pages. It’s a simple mistake to claim when you have no idea what else to say. Learning who you are, or who you will be in phone sex can take some time. But, let’s face it, there’s one thing you can and will never do for your NiteFlirt customers. MAKE THEIR FANTASIES COME TRUE.

Phone Sex fantasies are best left in the realm of fantasy.

You’re selling a service.  You are not advertising false promises or unrealistic expectations. You are offering a service via a double-blind and anonymous platform.  Your customers can come from a prison or a mansion.  But one thing is true: they are calling you because it’s anonymous. They aren’t looking for reality, they are looking for an escape from reality. And, it’s not a dating service!

NEVER AGREE TO MEET ANYONE FROM NITEFLIRT FOR AN IN-PERSON DATE.

The majority of customer’s who come to a phone sex operator are looking for someone with a great imagination who can articulate his ‘fantasy’ into something even more exciting than what he’s already thought of or what another phone sex operator has..YOU CANNOT MAKE THESE SEX FANTASIES COME TRUE SO STOP CLAIMING SO.  And, most wouldn’t want them to come true!  NOTHING LIKE OVER-PROMISING AND UNDER DELIVERING to ensure a business failure.

Just have fun!

It’s all fake.

Enjoy!

 

Get design and training references! (Don’t pay without them)

July 11, 2020

Today, I was contacted by someone who paid $30 to a flirt who has yet to deliver her NiteFlirt listing layout.  Reported: “She disappeared for a few days then we’ve gone back and fourth, and she’s asked me questions” but it seems to be a very basic page”.  IF SOMEONE CANNOT DELIVER A DESIGN OR LAYOUT TO YOU WITHIN 72 HOURS, DON’T PAY.  GET REFERENCES AND SEE HER PREVIOUS DESIGNS BEFORE YOU PAY.

This person said the flirt is clearly not qualified to design anything and that it was clearly ‘basic’ and that her skills are, “basic”.  According to this potential cam girl and phone sex operator, the flirt has only been helpful via email helping her to understand the NiteFlirt platform.

ONLY PAY ONCE YOU’VE SEEN A PORTFOLIO OF DESIGNS AND CONTACTED REFERENCES.

While I don’t blame someone for trying to open a new business but doing so without the qualifications you are promoting makes NITEFLIRT WEB DESIGN AND PHONE SEX TRAINING flirts’ like myself look bad.  You create a lack of trust just like those ‘Diva’s’ who over-charge for shitty ‘written’ training and over used templates.

I have references and just this month have trained 4 new women on the NiteFlirt ‘bidding’ system and platform training, including phone sex training and listing design.

Cam girls! There is a huge opening in the cam category for a serious talented hard-working cam girl to take over on NiteFlirt!  Just browse the cam category (I started in cam in 2007) and see that after 3 pages in it turns into dead air.  Bad feedbacks, no ratings points, and listings with no photos and cons.

The NiteFlirt cam listings used to be full of hot sexy successful hard working women.

“Hot Wife Laura” Sandy WoW and more!  Oh, and me!

Now, it’s full of “tribute me first” or hang ups because they are in Russia or overseas and leave their service on day and night and cannot take the call when it comes in.

Being ready to go when a customer calls is essential to success in cam modeling.

Not to mention, although I will…all of the “I don’t cam boys” listings!  HUH?  What are you doing offering a cam service without getting on cam?  So, here is my latest sexy cam model layouts and I hope you are ready to take over that category and make some good money!

Contact Me today for references and phone sex training.

 

 

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Building a brand in phone sex

How to build a brand in adult content

So, I was recently contacted by a woman who’d never taken a call on NiteFlirt despite being on the site for 2 months.  She explained she had experience as a FemDom on a  ‘texting’ platform and considered that ‘experience’ in FemDom.  Her listings were two lines of text that basically said, ‘Give me your money because you’re a loser’ and I asked her “are you willing to work hard?”

Her response was, I can dedicate more time to building my brand here. I created an account with no prior experience as an operator. I tried using a chat line to build confidence and phone skills. I know I need to create mail items and more offline content. I’m ready to continue.

First of all, she has NO CLIENTS, NO SOCIAL MEDIA PRESENCE, NO PHOTOS, NO COLORS OR A DESIGN OF ANY TYPE, AND NO EXPERIENCE…who told this poor woman she ‘needed to create mail items and offline content? FOR WHO? SHE HAS NO CLIENTS.  SELLING WHAT? SHE HAS NO PHOTOS NOR EXPERIENCE.  OFFLINE CONTENT?

What brand?

These common mistakes are why I am so passionate about helping women succeed in phone sex and adult related industry work.  So many false and misleading information and low-quality offering such as totallipservice.org bad NiteFlirt Layouts with horrible writing and IMO uneducated unskilled ideals of what men who call phone sex lines want!

BUILDING A BRAND TAKES VISION, FOCUS, TIME AND SOME MONEY

According to Shopify, building a brand takes:

  1. Research your target audience and your competitors.
  2. Pick your focus and personality.
  3. Choose your business name.
  4. Write your slogan.
  5. Choose the look of your brand (colors and font).
  6. Design your logo.

FINALLY:

7. Apply your branding across your business and social media (using the same photos, thumbnails and name) and evolve it as you grow.

Marketing sex work or adult related content is a uphill battle.  The internet is crowded with porn and free sex sites.  How do you compete with that?

How do you compete when you’re new on a website like NiteFlirt or others?  Sitting on the front page only gets you calls for a short time, THEN THE CALLS STOP.

I can help you but all in all PHONE SEX IS HARD WORK! IT TAKES COMMITTMENT TO BEING AVAILABLE 9 TO 11 HOURS A DAY, MAKING YOUR CUSTOMERS’ HAPPY AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, GETTING THEM TO CALL YOU AGAIN.

Selling adult related items online is a difficult task as well.  You need to offer info/items in a niche market and have a trust built within your clientele.  Men are less trusting of independent websites.

Here’s an article that can help you understand selling online.

If you want my help and ask for it, understand that I am not a frilly flowery female who speaks in hugs and kisses, I use BUSINESS LANGUAGE and I am an honest and direct person.

Just like Simon Cowell on Idol…he said he would rather have kept you from spinning your wheels trying to become successful in a business when you’re not right for.

I’ll  be glad to train you in phone sex and marketing and build you a design, logo, and brand.

But, I am honest. If you think phone sex is about throwing up a listing and thinking men are going to throw money at you, YOU WILL FAIL. Work hard, follow my program and continue to do so and you will likely succeed.

I have trained over 30 women in phone sex and recently saw one who paid for 2 sessions with me and bought a NiteFlirt layout. She has changed everything and still isn’t following the steps to learn the NiteFlirt platform.  I also recently saw her post in the NiteFlirt Flirt’s forum, “why can’t I make any money”?  Because, you seem to think you know more than someone who does.

 

NiteFlirt Slow for you?

PHONE SEX BUSINESS AND THE INEVITABLE SLOW TIMES AHEAD.

All adult businesses have their slow times.  NiteFlirt and phone sex is no exception.  Summer is the slowest time of the year with kids home from school and one or both parents taking time off of work to watch them and entertain them and go on family vacations.  Spring break is also very slow.  It seems this country values time-off more than education; families who suffered those 3 full months of school post New Years, Christmas and Thanksgiving NEED to go on yet another vacation.

I’ve built a long term clientele for the last 12 yrs on NiteFlirt and my own 800# and I still have days where the phone doesn’t ring.  When it comes to holidays…I’ve seen so many flirt’s in the NiteFlirt asking on bank holidays and others…”Is it slow or what”?  Yes! Kids are home and our customers can maybe sit in a corner clicking on your ads but the kids are around and so are their wives and girlfriends and they cannot make a phone call or download content or even sometimes…chat.

Can you imagine? Honey, who are you chatting with? Why so much typing and why can’t you stand up?

What can you do when it’s slow and your phone isn’t ringing?  WORK. 

PHONE SEX IS HARD WORK. 

Even when you’re not on the phone with that difficult to understand, difficult to draw out or just plain weird customer it is STILL WORK. What can you do?

You can blog.

You can spiff up your listings or hire me to do it for you.

Take photos and videos and edit them and upload them to NiteFlirt.

You can research fetishes that you don’t know anything about.

You can learn to write better advertising for your service. Or, hire me.

You can hire a web-designer, like myself or someone else to build you a full website.

You can join other sites to advertise with possible customers who will see your posts.

 

WHAT NOT TO DO WHEN IT GETS SLOW ON NITEFLIRT

I see it all of the time…adult escorts come onto NiteFlirt in the spring and summer when their own business slows.  What you should not do when business gets slow.

Offer up in-person meetings or advertise that you are an escort (against NF policies)

Lower your price…lowering your price when it’s slow is just the opposite of what you should do.

When business is brisk, you can afford to lower your rate, when it’s slow RAISE YOUR RATE.

(hire me as your phone sex operator trainer/consultant and I’ll explain that one to you)

Do not change your listings to make yourself look DESPERATE!

Don’t start offering up disgusting services that you normally don’t because your phone’s not ringing.

eg:

HER HEADLINE SCREAMS DESPERATION!!

Putting yourself in the number #1 spot on NiteFlirt and advertising for the sick twisted filthy fucked-up perverts for taboo means YOU’RE DESPERATE and it shows this lady is not making any money.  No one wants to elicit that type of business unless she feels hundreds of pedophiles and mentally ill bastards are calling everyone but her.  They are not.  She doesn’t have a reliable clientele and can’t hold on to them if she ever did.  I know my customers will call, it just might mean waiting a few days or working longer hours, but they WILL CALL ME.

Paying for higher placement and offering up disgusting filth is not wise.

THIS IS NOT HOW YOU BECOME A MORE PRODUCTIVE             MORE SUCCESSFUL PHONE SEX OPERATOR. 

Learn NiteFlirt phone sex and marketing, get a better listing that will attract the type of callers you want, and spread your brand on the web with full sized, and professionally designed website with SEO, security and one you can place on Google Ads by contacting me today.

Wishing you all success!

SexyKinkyCandy

 

 

Make money doing phone sex on NiteFlirt

Are you interested in learning the complex, fun and challenging job of being a phone sex operator?

Phone sex can be challenging.  You answer your phone and some random guy with a personal interest or fetish in something you have absolutely no experience with wants you to understand him, encourage his fetish or fantasy and ‘get him off’.  The problem I hear the most often from NiteFlirt phone sex operators I have trained is, “I though it would be easy”.  It’s not.

Oh, you can charge .99 a minute to spout some dirty words with a decent voice and attract the low-brow ‘dummies’ who don’t give a shit who you are, who don’t have anything in particular they want and who spend about $10 per call (if you’re lucky).  Those guys won’t call you back often, they call whoever’s cheap and easy.

At .99 cents per minute on the NiteFlirt website, you make

How Much You Will Earn

If you set a price of $0.99 per minute, you will earn $0.56 for a one minute call after the Connection Fee and our fee:

Price Per Minute that customers will see: $0.99
Connection Charge: $0.20
Our Fee: $0.23

You will earn (per minute): $0.56
*This amount has been rounded up to the nearest cent and represents the maximum you could earn. Actual earnings may be less depending on call length, free minutes, or other offers that could apply.
I charge the average of 1.99 per minute and get long calls.
I earn:

How Much You Will Earn

If you set a price of $1.99 per minute, you will earn $1.26 for a one minute call after the Connection Fee and our fee:

Price Per Minute that customers will see: $1.99
Connection Charge: $0.20
Our Fee: $0.53

You will earn (per minute): $1.26
*This amount has been rounded up to the nearest cent and represents the maximum you could earn. Actual earnings may be less depending on call length, free minutes, or other offers that could apply.

I EARN THREE TIMES MORE THAN A .99 CENTS PHONE SEX OPERATOR MAKES AND TAKE 1/3 FEWER CALLS. 

What type of phone sex operator do YOU want to be?  A cheap ass low brow who pays NiteFlirt for bids to get those dummies who say, “what are you wearing”?  Or, take 3 to 5 calls in a day and make 3x’s more money because you have intelligence and expert training?
I can (with most people, because not everyone is suited for the phone sex industry) train you to become a successful and well paid phone sex operator.  Set your own  hours, make your own rules and become self-sufficient.  Contact me now on www.learnphonesexxx.com or www.flirtwebdesign.com
Let my 12 yrs of phone sex experiences and success be your platform to becoming a phone sex operator.

Earn 10k a month in phone sex?

Be very leery of anyone claiming you can make 10 thousand dollars a month in phone sex!

I have seen someone who makes this claim on Amazon.com selling an e-book for basically nothing but who steers ‘her girls’ to IWantClips.com ONLY.  Maybe, she is associated with the site or an affliliate.

Very few people make that kind of money! You CAN if you work very very hard, but it’s rare to get 10k every single month of the year!  Phone sex has cycles where it gets very busy and other times when it gets very slow.  Yes, you may get a cash pig once in a great while, but it is rare. Summer for example is slow.

It is slow for EVERYONE in summer!  There isn’t a secret society of men who have no families, friends, jobs, or obligations during Christmas, Spring Break and New Years and oh, when school is out and their kids are at home from school and they go on summer holidays.  Most of your phone sex customers are married men in the their 40’s. *according to my google ads accounts

Anyone who steers you toward a site that has no Google Ads (because of their pornographic content) is an affliate. See below.

She get’s paid!

An affiliate makes money on each new sign-up to the site.  Ask yourself this, if she wasn’t associated with them why wouldn’t she suggest and offer training on other sites?  Money.

I have seen this woman’s NiteFlirt profile and she hasn’t signed in to it for years and she was in FINANCIAL DOMINATION.  Financial Domination is a rare fetish for men and an even more intimidating service to offer/learn for women.  Many women don’t have the lack of morals or confidence to do it.

While there are a few very very busy FinDom‘s working every single day to create videos and content to sell, one in France and one in California, they don’t seem to have a private life to speak of and thus are working very very hard at it!  Do you want a life?  Do you have any problems with putting your face and body all over the internet?  If you answer yes to any of these, FinDom is not for you to make a living at.

Be very leery of anyone who gives you something valuable FOR FREENothing is ever free!  Phone sex is a fickle business and NiteFlirt and every other platform suffers from slow times.  If you don’t believe that, I have included a recent post in the NF forums with the title “Dead” no call for 2 days!  There are FAR MORE VIEWS ON THIS ONE POST THAN ANY OTHER! That means, everyone else is slow too!

What you are looking at is that 546 views  means that many phone sex operators have gone onto NiteFlirt’s forum to see if EVERYONE ELSE IS SLOW.  The average post in the forums gets about 40 views.  Very telling!

I can teach you phone sex but I will never fool you into believing that you can make thousands of dollars a week.  You can work hard and still not be right for it.  Phone sex can be a mentally and emotionally challenging job.  If you think you’re right for it, contact me today to get started.

 

 

 

New Flirt 101

NEW NITEFLIRT PHONE SEX OPERATOR ARROGANCE

First of all, let’s understand that when you come onto the NiteFlirt Forums asking questions about how to run your business, you are asking YOUR COMPETITION.

There are many places where flirts can get help from other flirts without drawing attention to your weaknesses.  Here is one place Flirt Services 

Once other flirt’s know you’re struggling they will use that against you by bidding against you, giving you vague advice and using your newness against you.

My phone sex training can alleviate this trend and help you avoid failing at NiteFlirt.  If I have emailed you and offered help, it is because I have been watching you.  I have seen your constant bidding to be on the front page and when you go busy and for how long.  I have seen your listing and what it lacks. I have monitored your understanding of the NiteFlirt platform.

NEW FLIRT 101 after being offered phone sex training

a.How can I get customers to stay on the phone longer with me? (I could have taught you that)

b.Next question, she asks IN A PUBLIC FORUM, what other’s are doing with their income (do not share personal information with other flirts or customers, never talk about your income)

States her income and veteran flirts tell her “that’s because you’re new, it won’t last” and she’s arrogant enough to state, then “I’ll become new every 90 days” (good luck dear)

c.Do you ever run out of things to say to customers? (no, but you’re a newbie phone sex operator who thinks you know WHAT PHONE SEX IS ABOUT) You clearly don’t.

FAILURES HAPPEN EVERY DAY IN PHONE SEX

Many NiteFlirt Newbies think they know what phone sex is all about.  I have spoken with many ladies who decided not to join NiteFlirt once they understood what is all about.  Phone Sex is hard work.

Offering phone sex does not always mean some random stranger wanting to go down on you and fuck you ‘hard’.  Learn how to become a SUCCESSFUL phone sex operator.

I have 11 years experience in phone sex and own my own line as well as being one of NiteFlirt’s longest lasting highest rated flirts.

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Learn the platform-are you missing out on 50% or more of NiteFlirt’s business?

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Phone Sex Professionalism

By far the most obvious mistake brand new NiteFlirt operators make is not being professional. 

Well, you say, “I’m not a professional”.  What I mean by professional is acting professional in emails, responding to emails, reading the emails you’re being sent and responding accordingly.  If you receive an email from a fellow flirt, especially when you’re new to the business; she is reaching out to HELP YOU.

I can tell you in one email to a new flirt whether she will make it or not!  Why? Because, if you’re not even reading the emails being sent to you there is no way you can respond effectively enough to get the customer to call you.  If you haven’t taken the time to read the screen name who sent that email-you aren’t invested enough to run your own business.  If you don’t read an email, then you won’t take the time to listen to your callers and you will fail them and yourself.

THAT means you are a NOT an EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATOR.

Phone Sex is about communication.

If there is any one lesson you learn from reading this post, it should be to READ, LISTEN, ASK QUESTIONS then respond.  Every single customer who comes to you will have a very personal issue, want, need or feeling he wants YOU to communicate with or back to him.

Can you read an email and respond?  Have you received emails and simple written back without reading them?  Have you written back without FULLY UNDERSTANDING the email?  Did you write back something like: “hey, call me”.  (?)

Well, all I can say is, you have wasted your time joining NiteFlirt.  Bye bye.

When I was new in the field, and this is my 11th year on NiteFlirt, I wrote back almost every single customer with a professional sounding email using basic business language:

Thank you for contacting me.  I look forward to talking to you.  I appreciate your attention…the list goes on and one.  If you are so young and uneducated that you don’t know these terms, it’s time to start googleing ‘professional greetings and saluatations’.

Good Luck!

Regards,

Candy

 

How to become a phone sex operator

Willing to work hard?
I want you to succeed!

HOW TO BE A SUCCESSFUL PHONE SEX OPERATOR

NOTICE:I do not work with Call Centers on NiteFlirt.
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Learning how to work the website and your account, and learning how to take calls is essential. 

Why am I qualified to teach you phone sex? Because, I have been a full-time income phone sex operator for 11 yrs.  Why would I train my competition? Because, the better you are the better customers who use NiteFlirt are, and they will eventually call me too!

What can you learn from my live 1 on 1 phone sex training?
*Learn how to work your account efficiently
*Learn how to bid, why to bid and what bidding does
*Tips for getting calls without bidding
*How to initiate calls/if you are ‘thinking’ about phone sex: what it’s all about with truth,  honesty and straight forward advice.
*Learn what types of call you can expect
*I will speak with you personally to find out how best to market your phone sex business.  In phone sex, one size does not fit all
*How to multiply your earnings (secrets)
I have a BS in legal studies, a certificate sales and marketing AA, I have hundreds of hours of study in online marketing; including marketing behavior and customer retention. I study SEO weekly.
I have been on NiteFlirt for 10 years and have mastered the business.  As one of Niteflirt’s highest rated flirts I have seen so many new girls come and go.  Will you succeed?

 

FREE ADVICE: Sitting on the front page of NiteFlirt and paying hundreds of dollars to get calls will work for a time, but then it will stop.

When it does, contact me-because you will be trying to find out why you’re phone stopped ringing.