Don’t get caught….

up in the NiteFlirt’s ‘gold star award’ and continuing to PAY FOR IT by sitting on the front page.

It is not difficult to figure out that NiteFlirt hired someone with customer behavorial marketing experience when they brought back bidding and created the intersite (only meant for flirts) awards.

eg:Silver, Bronze and Gold etc…a simple graphic that only YOU can see.

Someone NiteFlirt paid knew that; CERTAIN INDIVIDUALS ARE MOTIVATED BY EXTERNAL AWARDS AND WILL CONTINUE THEIR BEHAVIOR(S) WHICH PROVIDED THEM WITH [THAT] AWARD BECAUSE LOSING IT SEEMS LIKE A FAILURE.

There is a certain culture committed to perfection and the ideal that success is it’s ONLY OPTIONAnything less than perfection is FAILURE. (according to their culture)

PHONE SEX MARKETING WORKS BOTH WAYS, FOR YOU AND AGAINST YOU

As a former real estate agent who sold new homes starting at $249k and going up, I did business with a few of these TYPES of folks who were buying real estate in Florida as investments.  I also had a few Korean customers on-site who I met with regularly while their homes were under construction.  At one meeting, with her real estate agent interpreter, as I explained IN ADVANCE that there will be problems with her new home.  It happens when over 130 men build one structure.  Not to worry, I told her…we will correct any problems after you close and report these issues.

Her response?  Is it so bad to expect perfection?  My response, as nicely as possible, was, yes.

One of my NiteFlirt listing design and phone sex training customers sat on the front page for months paying $2500 to $3000 dollars per month for clicks!  When asked what she made in return, she said, her first month was nearly $7000(income)-$3000(clicks)=$4000-%28 (average 1099 income tax) she did OK.  I warned her from the start to sit back and build a following, build long-term customers who will click only when they intend to call.

BUT ONE MONTH LATER, she wrote me to say that she is now bidding multiple accounts (2 or 3 different girls) on the front page at the same time and her income has reversed.  She is now PAYING MORE FOR BIDS THAN SHE IS MAKING.  I REMINDED her that I’d warned her about this trend a month earlier…she laughed and then she went out of her way to market off-site meetings as a result of being desperate.

I’d received one of her in-person meeting emails and it wasn’t a surprise that someone who saw good income at first then became desperate and was still sure there was big money to be made on NiteFlirt.

There is, but sitting on the front page won’t do it. Not for long.  And, we have all seen this behavorial model displayed every single day and every single night by one particular flirt who just won’t give up.  She continues to advertise she is the highest rated flirt, even though she is not and her listings’ categories change daily because it’s become too EXPENSIVE TO CONTINUE TO promote the same listing which gave her that false sense of perfection and her gold star award.

You can give it a try…but then ask me why and how after you do it yourself, pay for the front page and when you get fed up and broke and tired of paying NiteFlirt for little graphics that lul you into a sense of successfully important phone sex operators on phone sex platforms today…contact me.

Candy

 

 

 

Earn 10k a month in phone sex?

Be very leery of anyone claiming you can make 10 thousand dollars a month in phone sex!

I have seen someone who makes this claim on Amazon.com selling an e-book for basically nothing but who steers ‘her girls’ to IWantClips.com ONLY.  Maybe, she is associated with the site or an affliliate.

Very few people make that kind of money! You CAN if you work very very hard, but it’s rare to get 10k every single month of the year!  Phone sex has cycles where it gets very busy and other times when it gets very slow.  Yes, you may get a cash pig once in a great while, but it is rare. Summer for example is slow.

It is slow for EVERYONE in summer!  There isn’t a secret society of men who have no families, friends, jobs, or obligations during Christmas, Spring Break and New Years and oh, when school is out and their kids are at home from school and they go on summer holidays.  Most of your phone sex customers are married men in the their 40’s. *according to my google ads accounts

Anyone who steers you toward a site that has no Google Ads (because of their pornographic content) is an affliate. See below.

She get’s paid!

An affiliate makes money on each new sign-up to the site.  Ask yourself this, if she wasn’t associated with them why wouldn’t she suggest and offer training on other sites?  Money.

I have seen this woman’s NiteFlirt profile and she hasn’t signed in to it for years and she was in FINANCIAL DOMINATION.  Financial Domination is a rare fetish for men and an even more intimidating service to offer/learn for women.  Many women don’t have the lack of morals or confidence to do it.

While there are a few very very busy FinDom‘s working every single day to create videos and content to sell, one in France and one in California, they don’t seem to have a private life to speak of and thus are working very very hard at it!  Do you want a life?  Do you have any problems with putting your face and body all over the internet?  If you answer yes to any of these, FinDom is not for you to make a living at.

Be very leery of anyone who gives you something valuable FOR FREENothing is ever free!  Phone sex is a fickle business and NiteFlirt and every other platform suffers from slow times.  If you don’t believe that, I have included a recent post in the NF forums with the title “Dead” no call for 2 days!  There are FAR MORE VIEWS ON THIS ONE POST THAN ANY OTHER! That means, everyone else is slow too!

What you are looking at is that 546 views  means that many phone sex operators have gone onto NiteFlirt’s forum to see if EVERYONE ELSE IS SLOW.  The average post in the forums gets about 40 views.  Very telling!

I can teach you phone sex but I will never fool you into believing that you can make thousands of dollars a week.  You can work hard and still not be right for it.  Phone sex can be a mentally and emotionally challenging job.  If you think you’re right for it, contact me today to get started.

 

 

 

Avoid Bad Feedbacks

With a little training and listing tweek she could have avoided a four star rating!

niteflirt feedback niteflirt training There are many reasons a flirt will get bad feedbacks. I still get them because I’m picky and a bitch at times who has a very low threshold for dummies.
But, a new flirt (or a new listing) cannot afford to lose her five star NiteFlirt rating. Now, this flirt is stuck with 218 ratings points and a 4 star rating which will take many many 5 stars to change and a listing too highly rated to delete.

However, after contacting her she did delete her other listings with less than 40 points and four stars and bad feedbacks.
Why does this flirt have a four star rating?

After reaching out to her and getting the response I did and seeing that her other listing (character) also had several 1 star ratings, I can tell you:
1.She’s stubborn and strong-headed. (not submissive traits)
2.She thinks she knows marketing.  She doesn’t.
3. *She lacks self-awareness.
*What does that mean? According to her feedbacks, she is NOT SUBMISSIVE yet she insists on only advertising herself as submissive. This can be because she’s afraid of being dominant but there’s no reason to be ‘dominant’.  Many flirts make good money being a girlfriend experience phone sex operator.

The likely reason this obstinent flirt is getting it wrong is simple.  She is confusing her real life sexual interests and style with her phone sex persona.  It is most likely because in her real life she enjoys sexual submission with men but:

Offering commercial PHONE SEX IS NOT A REFLECTION OF YOUR OWN SEXUALITY, IT IS THE ABILITY TO ENHANCE YOUR CUSTOMERS’ SEXUALITY AND SEXUAL INTERESTS.

There is also problem with flirts who do not know how to steer problems and calls away from uncomfortable topics.  This flirt felt so strongly that she didn’t deserve her feedbacks that she addressed them in her listing which is a no no.  However, with a little tweek to her listing she could have avoided that feedback.  She also could have, with my NiteFlirt phone sex training, avoided pissing of her customers.  By the way, AMister is a NiteFlirt customer EVERYONE SHOULD BLOCK!

He never gives anyone good feedback and is mentally ill.  He should have had his privledges to leave feedback revoked a long time ago! Pre-Block AMister on your accounts.

AMister NiteFlirt black list block this customer now!

AVOID BAD NITEFLIRT FEEDBACKS by learning how to steer calls and customers away from topics you don’t want to discuss without angering them and get an effective listing design to attract the customers you want, not the one’s you don’t.

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Engage Clients

There are many talented graphic artists who can make your listing stand-out! You need to engage your customers when they click, get them to stick around and then call you. DO NOT PUT BLINKING FLASHING GRAPHICS ON YOUR NITEFLIRT PAGE!

It’s important that you shine and excite your customers when they click on your listing especially if you’re paying NiteFlirt for placement.  One way to do that is engage them with your own photos and a list of things you enjoy. Another is to offer moving graphics. (not blinking graphics).

One way to turn off your NiteFlirt phone sex caller is to have a slick fancy “too professional” looking design.  They kinda want to know you’re not fake or polished and that you’re fun to talk with.

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I specialize in a mix of both nice and professional looking but not so fancy as to turn off your customer.  No pathetic fake ‘bio’ stories like one over-priced “Diva” call center and listings seller.  I provide personal copywriting services so that your customers know who is answering the phone.  I don’t want you to be someone else, I want you to be you!

I also design animated GIF images, YouTube ads, and social headers for Facebook and Twitter.

Here is a simple banner I put together.  You can have your own with your photos and linked to your listings for only $20+30% that NiteFlirt takes.

Contact Me if you’re interested in engaging your audience.

 

 

Making money in phone sex

SET YOUR GOALS REALISTICALLY THEN GO FOR MORE!

There has been some talk lately about the realistic prospect that you can make “six figures’ in phone sex on NiteFlirt.  While I agree that some extremely hard working, very long time phone sex opertors may make something near that, I have proof from an owner/customer relations expert that very few do.

In an article published in 2016 by “The Life of a Phone Sex Operator” on www.Priceonomics.com one such person we all know as Erin M. on NiteFlirt stated:

Although the work can be lucrative, it appears that only a minority make a full-time living from phone sex. Erin M. of Niteflirt says the site has tens of thousands of active accounts, but fewer than 2,000 make over $10,000 a year. Niteflirt users who earn that much, Erin says, tend to devote 40-hour weeks to their business. For most PSOs, phone sex supplements other income or fills a small budget deficit. 

IS IT POSSIBLE TO MAKE SIX FIGURES IN PHONE SEX (maybe)

Quick fact: To make $100k per year charging 1.50 pm an operator would have to be on the phone:

FIVE HOURS A DAY 365 DAYS A YEAR that’s EVERY SINGLE DAY OF THE YEAR!

  NITEFLIRT INCOME POTENTIAL

As we can all see by forum posts and from those of us who have been in the business for many years, NiteFlirt does not have that level of traffic day after day 365 days a year.  I don’t care who you are!  If you can get five hours of calls every single day of year on NiteFlirt alone, you are indeed alone in that.  Even to average that would be very difficult. You would need to be available 24/7.

Summer, for example can be tremendously slow.  Also, the American Holidays such as Christmas and Easter (Spring Break for school kids) can be awful.  Phone sex is really only good six month a year.

Let’s talk about selling content rather than getting five hours of calls every single day of the year.

Let’s say she gets 2.5 hours of phone calls every single day of the year, without fail on average. That same flirt would have to sell 50,000 dollars worth of content every single year to make 100,000 dollars per year.

Be forewarned when anyone tells you how much money they make, they embellish. They embellish for ego, competiveness and other reasons. Also, you don’t know how many platforms she works on or what she’s doing in terms of off-site income.

CAN A NEWBIE ON NITEFLIRT EXPECT TO MAKE 100K PER YEAR?

As with any new business there is sometimes a surge in excitement for a new product.  Unfortunately, that surge is often followed by a down-swing in sales.  That’s the front page issues I spoke of previously.

With NiteFlirt, for example, there aren’t that many customers really…they come and go year after year-the same guys who say the same thing, like the same fantasies and ask for the same type of calls no matter who he speaks with.  Phone sex is a small world.

If you are new to phone sex and want to make part-time income you can count on some EXTRA INCOME but don’t quit a good paying steady job for phone sex until you KNOW you can make it.

I can help you learn the business, maybe change some bad habits you learned by call centers.  Or, unlearn what you thought phone sex was.  “oh, baby stuff your cock down my throat” etc…

What I will not EVER do is fill your head with false information and set you up for a let-down.  You can make good money, if you’re willing to WORK VERY HARD.  But, not everyone is going to be good at it and not everyone is suited for it. Do not expect to sign up and turn on your phone and the calls start pouring in. It is a job.

It is an investment, it is your own personal business. 

What you put into it, is generally what you get out of it.

But, you should devote 40 or more hours per week (7 day week) and do what very few women have the mental capacity to do.  Listen the sometimes vulgar grunting and panting sexual conversations day after day while men ejaculate and not let it get in your head.  It is a hard business.  There are nasty conversations with really nice gents, and then there are the ‘others’.  You are competing with women who talk to anyone about ANY SUBJECT no matter how disgusting or illegal. They work 24/7 and never sleep through the night without being interupted by the phone.

If you can do that, then uh…go ahead.

But, I suggest discovering your limits and being a healthy balanced person while making decent money.

In the long run, the damage can be as costly as the taxes.  OH, and on that note:

Self-employment tax is about 28% plus any state income tax you pay. So, 100k is really 70k.

Good Luck! Any questions, feel free to:

Contact Me for more info.

Candy

 

Phone Sex Website

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This is just one of my websites’ weekly clicks.  Just think of the thousands of hits you get in a month!

See example: “Direct Traffic” means people who actually typed in my website’s name.

%42 percent of my visitors found me on GOOGLE, BING, OR YAHOO without my paying for anything. That is what SEO means! Seach Engine friendly websites work for you while you do nothing!

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To explain: 48% of my clicks came from people seeking my service ORGANICALLY. If you want a website that works for you and gets you visits for free YOU NEED A DESIGNER WHO KNOWS SEO, Search Engine Optimization. I do.  You found this website and it’s only a few months old.

With a web designer who understands how to set up your site for clicks and convesions you save money in the end and build a long term customer base.  That means men who are searching for what you’re selling type in those words and find your website.  Come on! Get one today! Contact Me Here

If your web designer cannot prove to you that she or he can get you traffic, do not hire them!

NO MORE PAYING FOR CLICKS ON NiteFlirt for random curiousity seekers who never intend to buy anything or call you.

I can design your phone sex website for as low as $150.  How many times have you paid NiteFlirt for front page placement at that rate?  How many of those customers continue to call you?

If you’re not getting repeat callers who rely on you and your business, then you need training.

Phone Sex Training with Candy, one on one live on Skype audio only $45 for an hour.

I have so much to teach you!

Candy

New Flirt 101

NEW NITEFLIRT PHONE SEX OPERATOR ARROGANCE

First of all, let’s understand that when you come onto the NiteFlirt Forums asking questions about how to run your business, you are asking YOUR COMPETITION.

There are many places where flirts can get help from other flirts without drawing attention to your weaknesses.  Here is one place Flirt Services 

Once other flirt’s know you’re struggling they will use that against you by bidding against you, giving you vague advice and using your newness against you.

My phone sex training can alleviate this trend and help you avoid failing at NiteFlirt.  If I have emailed you and offered help, it is because I have been watching you.  I have seen your constant bidding to be on the front page and when you go busy and for how long.  I have seen your listing and what it lacks. I have monitored your understanding of the NiteFlirt platform.

NEW FLIRT 101 after being offered phone sex training

a.How can I get customers to stay on the phone longer with me? (I could have taught you that)

b.Next question, she asks IN A PUBLIC FORUM, what other’s are doing with their income (do not share personal information with other flirts or customers, never talk about your income)

States her income and veteran flirts tell her “that’s because you’re new, it won’t last” and she’s arrogant enough to state, then “I’ll become new every 90 days” (good luck dear)

c.Do you ever run out of things to say to customers? (no, but you’re a newbie phone sex operator who thinks you know WHAT PHONE SEX IS ABOUT) You clearly don’t.

FAILURES HAPPEN EVERY DAY IN PHONE SEX

Many NiteFlirt Newbies think they know what phone sex is all about.  I have spoken with many ladies who decided not to join NiteFlirt once they understood what is all about.  Phone Sex is hard work.

Offering phone sex does not always mean some random stranger wanting to go down on you and fuck you ‘hard’.  Learn how to become a SUCCESSFUL phone sex operator.

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Phone Sex Professionalism

By far the most obvious mistake brand new NiteFlirt operators make is not being professional. 

Well, you say, “I’m not a professional”.  What I mean by professional is acting professional in emails, responding to emails, reading the emails you’re being sent and responding accordingly.  If you receive an email from a fellow flirt, especially when you’re new to the business; she is reaching out to HELP YOU.

I can tell you in one email to a new flirt whether she will make it or not!  Why? Because, if you’re not even reading the emails being sent to you there is no way you can respond effectively enough to get the customer to call you.  If you haven’t taken the time to read the screen name who sent that email-you aren’t invested enough to run your own business.  If you don’t read an email, then you won’t take the time to listen to your callers and you will fail them and yourself.

THAT means you are a NOT an EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATOR.

Phone Sex is about communication.

If there is any one lesson you learn from reading this post, it should be to READ, LISTEN, ASK QUESTIONS then respond.  Every single customer who comes to you will have a very personal issue, want, need or feeling he wants YOU to communicate with or back to him.

Can you read an email and respond?  Have you received emails and simple written back without reading them?  Have you written back without FULLY UNDERSTANDING the email?  Did you write back something like: “hey, call me”.  (?)

Well, all I can say is, you have wasted your time joining NiteFlirt.  Bye bye.

When I was new in the field, and this is my 11th year on NiteFlirt, I wrote back almost every single customer with a professional sounding email using basic business language:

Thank you for contacting me.  I look forward to talking to you.  I appreciate your attention…the list goes on and one.  If you are so young and uneducated that you don’t know these terms, it’s time to start googleing ‘professional greetings and saluatations’.

Good Luck!

Regards,

Candy

 

NiteFlirt Front Page

Read the comment by my recent NiteFlirt Listing Design/Training client:

I reed your info about niteflirt front page and it sounds just like me! Yes I have been that girl through the exact same steps also!! I always believed and still do that the profile must be featured on the 2 front pages. I have experimented and been on a first page under a extra kinky or fin dom category, not the main nf front pages, but with that it seems I just stay up there awhile get clicked but no calls. 

  Over the years I have witnessed the same pattern when new flirts come onto NiteFlirt advertising themselves on the front page of the site.  While you will likely make some money at first, eventually it stops working and the same ol’ patterns develop.  Once the pattern evolves into a complete loss of calls and income, most flirts quit.  Some don’t…those who don’t can still make money but you will need help.

NITEFLIRT FRONT PAGE ADVERTISING PATTERN.

New Flirt adds a few lines on her listing and a thumbnail PAYS FOR PLACEMENT IN Find Women.
New Flirt sets her rate too high, realizes it’s not working…lowers her rate.
New Flirt gets calls.  Mostly short ones and gets guys off fast! Thinks that’s right….:(
New Flirt gets some bad feedback and realizes she needs to be more professional (finally)
New Flirt makes some money from many short calls and gains a higher LVS…lol whatever that is.
New Flirt gets some ratings points (internal ‘reward’)
New Flirt KEEPS PAYING FOR PLACEMENT (that’s the hook of ‘rewards’, how much did it cost u?) 
New Flirt maybe…makes more than she’s spending and if she’s dirty enough makes good money
New Flirt sits on the front page day after day week after week PAYING FOR PLACEMENT
New Flirt starts to see other NiteFlirt operators bidding high amounts and pushes her off front page
New Flirt pays more!!! After all, it’s been working for her. She thinks being number 1 is key
New Flirt month or so after coming onto front page gaining ratings points see’s it’s costing more to be on front page in top spot.
New Flirt pays more!!!! Now that lil gold star is costing you more too!
New Flirt stops seeing more income to outgoing fees for front placement. She settles for 1st 2 pages 
New Flirt thinks its’ her listing so she changes THUMBNAIL to show more flesh
New Flirt doesn’t see change…it’s now slow and she’s paying even higher fees!
New Flirt changes LISTING DESIGN or adds more pornographic text to her listing
New Flirt still get’s charged more for front page placement because her listing is changed and more flirts are bidding (some on purpose to push her off front page) higher to be on front page.
New Flirt lowers rate, still calls are not what they used to be
New Flirt adds new listings because a new listing costs less than one she was using. No calls.
New Flirt has no clue what happened!
Money now not what it was…she’s thinking she’s not nasty enough, not doing a good job and starts doubting herself or becomes paranoid that NiteFlirt has done something.

Flirt starts adding different photos.  Flirt starts working less hours.  Flirt settles for lower placement.

Flirt quits or comes into the forums asking, “what happened, I was making money and getting calls and now nothing”?

Experienced flirts critique her listing, her thumbnails, her marketing and respond, some kindly some unkindly.  Flirt loses all hope and now feels business is bad and other flirts suck.

Flirt quits.

I am currently watching this trend with a flirt (May 1, 2018) today she uploaded her new thumbnail, and changed the listing category because it was getting too expensive for the one she’s been using.

WHAT HAPPENED?
New Flirt got calls for 2 reasons:

First, the men who call from the front page want somone quick and dirty, cheap and easy. They won’t remember you.  Your fast food.  Unmemorable, but you got the job done.

Secondly, they won’t call you back because it wasn’t about getting to know you-you didn’t have a marketing plan and build a lasting relationship with these callers because you lack good salesmenship skills and don’t know how to ask for the repeat call.

You offered yourself up to the bad customer, and you were new to the one’s who thought, “hey, maybe she hasn’t heard my fantasy that I have told to hundreds of phone sex operators for years” and it was a nice long call.  They always are with that guy.  Problem is, that guy needs new flirts all the time.

Need help building a long term business in phone sex?
Contact me, SexyKinkyCandy on NiteFlirt or here on my website which you found on Google.

I can help.

Think you know phone sex?

So, you sat on the front page for weeks making money.

Does sitting on the front page of NiteFlirt paying 100″s of dollars a month {to get calls really work?  Yes. For a time.  If you’re listing is decent enough to attract callers.

Then it stops working.  Why?  I KNOW! Why do I know? 12 years on NiteFlirt! I can tell you.

Well, that’s a paid conversation but I can guarantee you that your time making money from front page placement will end.

Sure, NF’s silly ‘gold ‘star’ awards (internal by the way, customers have no idea what that is) will KEEP ENCOURAGING YOU TO SPEND HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS to stay on the front page; but what will you do when it ends? And, it will end.

I have tutored, schooled, trained and lectured many flirts over the past 2 years about this exact topic.

Some ignored me and kept spending 100’s of dollars per month only to quit phone sex.  Some even paid hundreds per week and made decent cash (some didn’t) but then it stopped working and they kept spending money.  What happened?  Well, some fell away and left the business because they had unrealistic expectations that the front page encouraged.  Some, just gave up because they didn’t know what else to do.  And, some contacted me and got real.

What will you do when NiteFlirt’s front page does not work for YOU any more.

The only thing I can tell you is that making money hand over fist does not happen in the industry. 

Anyone who tells you this is lying or not telling you the whole truth.  The money does not roll in day after day-every day.  And even if it did, especially if it did-you would be competing with many call centers (businesses that use the NiteFlirt platform, create many listings and have many operators answering those listings) and other highly experienced phone sex operators who know more than you do.

There is only way sure way to make it in phone sex.

Work hard, work long, and work smart.

Having issues getting going?  Is your listing wrong?  Do you know what customers are looking for?

Ask me if I can help. Contact me today.  SexyKinkyCandy is not my only listing nor my only job, so using my contact form is best.  Listing design starts at $30 with your photos, content and buttons are extra.

www.niteflirt.com/sexykinkycandy or use my contact form (best way) to reach me faster.

If I have blocked you on NF it’s best to use my contact form. It’s probably because you spammed me or clicked my buttons.