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Online Safety for Phone Sex Workers

KEEP YOURSELF SAFE WHILE WORKING ON ADULT SITES AS A PHONE SEX OPERATOR

A brand new flirt recently posted:

One of my customers was able to find my real life social media profiles AND where I live. He Google searched my first name, city, and the industry I work in for my day job and was able to find my full name. Even though I’m not tagged in the post, my apartment complex posted a picture of me with my full name on their socials so once this customer had figured out my name, he found that post as well. I wear a Fitbit and the customer noticed my Fitbit in both my NiteFlirt profile and my personal social media accounts. This was what convinced him it was definitely me.

SHE GAVE SOME RANDOM STRANGER ON A PHONE SEX CALL ALL OF THIS INFO!!!!

This is the newest addition to a long line of new phone sex operators who have either posted or come to me about being stalked online.  As you can see by the self-admitted responsibility highlighted in the text above, this young lady has NO CLUE HOW TO STAY SAFE ONLINE AS A SEX WORKER.  She actually gave a customer this personal information.

While some may disagree that being a phone sex operator is sex work, it is sex work online.  Men from all over the world call you.  There is no background check of your callers thus you can speak with prisoners who are in prision for rape and stalking, assault and battery and so much worse. You can talk to, and most likely will speak with mentally ill men who have sever personality disorders, fixations, narcissistic tendies, paranoid , gaslighters and schizophrenics and more.  You will speak with lonely disfuctional social outcasts who take one little ounce of kindness you give them and become obsessed with you.

HOW TO STAY SAFE AS AN ONLINE SEX WORKER-PHONE SEX OPERATOR

  • Realize that phone sex, even if the word ‘flirt’ is in the title of the website it is SEX WORK.
  • You are now on the adult side of the internet/sexual conversation-communication of the internet
  • Your online information, including your real name, location, family and photos should NEVER BE SHARED WITH YOUR ONLINE SEX WORKER PROFILE.
  • No amount of money is worth your life or your safety
  • NEVER reveal your real identity to ANYONE, a mentally savvy criminal can fool even the smartest and street-smart among us
  • READ the rules of any site you work on.  If you don’t read the policies of the website you work on you are going to face suspension of your account or deletion or banishment
  • NEVER USE your own real photos, they can be reversed image searched.  Use your body without your face and DO NOT USE PHOTOS FROM SOCIAL MEDIA SITES like facebook, twitter et al.
  • Use a fake name and always use the same name!  Remember who you are and use it along with a fake location
  • Wish list addresses can be seen on Amazon.com if the seller changes from ‘shipped by Amazon.com” and the address delivery will be seen.  Nothing is worth having your front door ring and have HIM standing there.
  • Never click a link given to you by a customer unless you are ON NITEFLIRT OR THE SITE YOU WORK ON.  Any click by a computer can be revealed by many many software programs and give them your IP ADDRESS.  That can be google mapped and your general location found.
  • NEVER CLICK ON ANYTHING FROM YOUR PHONE!!  Your phone has location services that most us use for Google Maps and stuff…THAT IS HOW someone can find you too!  I have.
  • Never go off-site for payment.  Guys can get your real name from PayPal…gmail, and many other payment sites.  They can also REVERSE THOSE CHARGES on GiftRocket.com and others.
  • CAM SAFETY:

  • Never use your smart phone with location services ON to do cam shows. 
  • There are several Skype hacker programs on the internet.  These programs allow a person to see where you are located and most importantly THEY CAN HACK YOUR CAM EVEN WHEN YOU’RE NOT ON it doing business.  They can watch and listen to you all of the time your laptop is open, your Ipad is on, or your desktop is on. eg:http://global.drfone.biz/gl/hack/how-to-hack-skype.html
  • Beware of what is behind you or in your room!  Many Skype Cam Girl customers will take photos of you while you’re on cam, or record your session.  This can be later enlarged and they can read your mail if it’s nearby (your name address) and/or they can see out a window to a car tag.
  • Be sure no pictures of children even if they aren’t yours are not behind you…this can be seen as Child Porn and you can get arrested.
  • Always use your screen name during the session or better yet, put a sign with your website, your screen name or your platform site eg:www.niteflirt.com/sexykinkycandy behind you during your shows.  If you do this, those same customers cannot reproduce your session to pornhub or the like.
  • Never reveal your phone number to anyone, this can be used by calling Dominos Pizza and when you give them the PHONE NUMBER they search their database and say, So and So at 123 Powder Puff Way? And bamm! Your customer/stalker has your address.

Stay on the website you work on and you should be safe with payments

Being a phone sex operator or a FemDomme or a lifestyle Mistress are all the same, they are SEX WORKERS and anyone who comes into this business without doing some research and using BASIC COMMON SENSE is going to get stalked, harrassed, used and abused or worse.

USING YOUR COMMON SENSE CAN SAVE YOUR LIFE!