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“Let’s make it a reality” Big Mistake!

Almost every day I see this statement on new phone sex operator’s pages. It’s a simple mistake to claim when you have no idea what else to say. Learning who you are, or who you will be in phone sex can take some time. But, let’s face it, there’s one thing you can and will never do for your NiteFlirt customers. MAKE THEIR FANTASIES COME TRUE.

Phone Sex fantasies are best left in the realm of fantasy.

You’re selling a service.  You are not advertising false promises or unrealistic expectations. You are offering a service via a double-blind and anonymous platform.  Your customers can come from a prison or a mansion.  But one thing is true: they are calling you because it’s anonymous. They aren’t looking for reality, they are looking for an escape from reality. And, it’s not a dating service!

NEVER AGREE TO MEET ANYONE FROM NITEFLIRT FOR AN IN-PERSON DATE.

The majority of customer’s who come to a phone sex operator are looking for someone with a great imagination who can articulate his ‘fantasy’ into something even more exciting than what he’s already thought of or what another phone sex operator has..YOU CANNOT MAKE THESE SEX FANTASIES COME TRUE SO STOP CLAIMING SO.  And, most wouldn’t want them to come true!  NOTHING LIKE OVER-PROMISING AND UNDER DELIVERING to ensure a business failure.

Just have fun!

It’s all fake.

Enjoy!

 

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Don’t get caught….

up in the NiteFlirt’s ‘gold star award’ and continuing to PAY FOR IT by sitting on the front page.

It is not difficult to figure out that NiteFlirt hired someone with customer behavorial marketing experience when they brought back bidding and created the intersite (only meant for flirts) awards.

eg:Silver, Bronze and Gold etc…a simple graphic that only YOU can see.

Someone NiteFlirt paid knew that; CERTAIN INDIVIDUALS ARE MOTIVATED BY EXTERNAL AWARDS AND WILL CONTINUE THEIR BEHAVIOR(S) WHICH PROVIDED THEM WITH [THAT] AWARD BECAUSE LOSING IT SEEMS LIKE A FAILURE.

There is a certain culture committed to perfection and the ideal that success is it’s ONLY OPTIONAnything less than perfection is FAILURE. (according to their culture)

PHONE SEX MARKETING WORKS BOTH WAYS, FOR YOU AND AGAINST YOU

As a former real estate agent who sold new homes starting at $249k and going up, I did business with a few of these TYPES of folks who were buying real estate in Florida as investments.  I also had a few Korean customers on-site who I met with regularly while their homes were under construction.  At one meeting, with her real estate agent interpreter, as I explained IN ADVANCE that there will be problems with her new home.  It happens when over 130 men build one structure.  Not to worry, I told her…we will correct any problems after you close and report these issues.

Her response?  Is it so bad to expect perfection?  My response, as nicely as possible, was, yes.

One of my NiteFlirt listing design and phone sex training customers sat on the front page for months paying $2500 to $3000 dollars per month for clicks!  When asked what she made in return, she said, her first month was nearly $7000(income)-$3000(clicks)=$4000-%28 (average 1099 income tax) she did OK.  I warned her from the start to sit back and build a following, build long-term customers who will click only when they intend to call.

BUT ONE MONTH LATER, she wrote me to say that she is now bidding multiple accounts (2 or 3 different girls) on the front page at the same time and her income has reversed.  She is now PAYING MORE FOR BIDS THAN SHE IS MAKING.  I REMINDED her that I’d warned her about this trend a month earlier…she laughed and then she went out of her way to market off-site meetings as a result of being desperate.

I’d received one of her in-person meeting emails and it wasn’t a surprise that someone who saw good income at first then became desperate and was still sure there was big money to be made on NiteFlirt.

There is, but sitting on the front page won’t do it. Not for long.  And, we have all seen this behavorial model displayed every single day and every single night by one particular flirt who just won’t give up.  She continues to advertise she is the highest rated flirt, even though she is not and her listings’ categories change daily because it’s become too EXPENSIVE TO CONTINUE TO promote the same listing which gave her that false sense of perfection and her gold star award.

You can give it a try…but then ask me why and how after you do it yourself, pay for the front page and when you get fed up and broke and tired of paying NiteFlirt for little graphics that lul you into a sense of successfully important phone sex operators on phone sex platforms today…contact me.

Candy

 

 

 

Earn 10k a month in phone sex?

Be very leery of anyone claiming you can make 10 thousand dollars a month in phone sex!

I have seen someone who makes this claim on Amazon.com selling an e-book for basically nothing but who steers ‘her girls’ to IWantClips.com ONLY.  Maybe, she is associated with the site or an affliliate.

Very few people make that kind of money! You CAN if you work very very hard, but it’s rare to get 10k every single month of the year!  Phone sex has cycles where it gets very busy and other times when it gets very slow.  Yes, you may get a cash pig once in a great while, but it is rare. Summer for example is slow.

It is slow for EVERYONE in summer!  There isn’t a secret society of men who have no families, friends, jobs, or obligations during Christmas, Spring Break and New Years and oh, when school is out and their kids are at home from school and they go on summer holidays.  Most of your phone sex customers are married men in the their 40’s. *according to my google ads accounts

Anyone who steers you toward a site that has no Google Ads (because of their pornographic content) is an affliate. See below.

She get’s paid!

An affiliate makes money on each new sign-up to the site.  Ask yourself this, if she wasn’t associated with them why wouldn’t she suggest and offer training on other sites?  Money.

I have seen this woman’s NiteFlirt profile and she hasn’t signed in to it for years and she was in FINANCIAL DOMINATION.  Financial Domination is a rare fetish for men and an even more intimidating service to offer/learn for women.  Many women don’t have the lack of morals or confidence to do it.

While there are a few very very busy FinDom‘s working every single day to create videos and content to sell, one in France and one in California, they don’t seem to have a private life to speak of and thus are working very very hard at it!  Do you want a life?  Do you have any problems with putting your face and body all over the internet?  If you answer yes to any of these, FinDom is not for you to make a living at.

Be very leery of anyone who gives you something valuable FOR FREENothing is ever free!  Phone sex is a fickle business and NiteFlirt and every other platform suffers from slow times.  If you don’t believe that, I have included a recent post in the NF forums with the title “Dead” no call for 2 days!  There are FAR MORE VIEWS ON THIS ONE POST THAN ANY OTHER! That means, everyone else is slow too!

What you are looking at is that 546 views  means that many phone sex operators have gone onto NiteFlirt’s forum to see if EVERYONE ELSE IS SLOW.  The average post in the forums gets about 40 views.  Very telling!

I can teach you phone sex but I will never fool you into believing that you can make thousands of dollars a week.  You can work hard and still not be right for it.  Phone sex can be a mentally and emotionally challenging job.  If you think you’re right for it, contact me today to get started.

 

 

 

Making money in phone sex

SET YOUR GOALS REALISTICALLY THEN GO FOR MORE!

There has been some talk lately about the realistic prospect that you can make “six figures’ in phone sex on NiteFlirt.  While I agree that some extremely hard working, very long time phone sex opertors may make something near that, I have proof from an owner/customer relations expert that very few do.

In an article published in 2016 by “The Life of a Phone Sex Operator” on www.Priceonomics.com one such person we all know as Erin M. on NiteFlirt stated:

Although the work can be lucrative, it appears that only a minority make a full-time living from phone sex. Erin M. of Niteflirt says the site has tens of thousands of active accounts, but fewer than 2,000 make over $10,000 a year. Niteflirt users who earn that much, Erin says, tend to devote 40-hour weeks to their business. For most PSOs, phone sex supplements other income or fills a small budget deficit. 

IS IT POSSIBLE TO MAKE SIX FIGURES IN PHONE SEX (maybe)

Quick fact: To make $100k per year charging 1.50 pm an operator would have to be on the phone:

FIVE HOURS A DAY 365 DAYS A YEAR that’s EVERY SINGLE DAY OF THE YEAR!

  NITEFLIRT INCOME POTENTIAL

As we can all see by forum posts and from those of us who have been in the business for many years, NiteFlirt does not have that level of traffic day after day 365 days a year.  I don’t care who you are!  If you can get five hours of calls every single day of year on NiteFlirt alone, you are indeed alone in that.  Even to average that would be very difficult. You would need to be available 24/7.

Summer, for example can be tremendously slow.  Also, the American Holidays such as Christmas and Easter (Spring Break for school kids) can be awful.  Phone sex is really only good six month a year.

Let’s talk about selling content rather than getting five hours of calls every single day of the year.

Let’s say she gets 2.5 hours of phone calls every single day of the year, without fail on average. That same flirt would have to sell 50,000 dollars worth of content every single year to make 100,000 dollars per year.

Be forewarned when anyone tells you how much money they make, they embellish. They embellish for ego, competiveness and other reasons. Also, you don’t know how many platforms she works on or what she’s doing in terms of off-site income.

CAN A NEWBIE ON NITEFLIRT EXPECT TO MAKE 100K PER YEAR?

As with any new business there is sometimes a surge in excitement for a new product.  Unfortunately, that surge is often followed by a down-swing in sales.  That’s the front page issues I spoke of previously.

With NiteFlirt, for example, there aren’t that many customers really…they come and go year after year-the same guys who say the same thing, like the same fantasies and ask for the same type of calls no matter who he speaks with.  Phone sex is a small world.

If you are new to phone sex and want to make part-time income you can count on some EXTRA INCOME but don’t quit a good paying steady job for phone sex until you KNOW you can make it.

I can help you learn the business, maybe change some bad habits you learned by call centers.  Or, unlearn what you thought phone sex was.  “oh, baby stuff your cock down my throat” etc…

What I will not EVER do is fill your head with false information and set you up for a let-down.  You can make good money, if you’re willing to WORK VERY HARD.  But, not everyone is going to be good at it and not everyone is suited for it. Do not expect to sign up and turn on your phone and the calls start pouring in. It is a job.

It is an investment, it is your own personal business. 

What you put into it, is generally what you get out of it.

But, you should devote 40 or more hours per week (7 day week) and do what very few women have the mental capacity to do.  Listen the sometimes vulgar grunting and panting sexual conversations day after day while men ejaculate and not let it get in your head.  It is a hard business.  There are nasty conversations with really nice gents, and then there are the ‘others’.  You are competing with women who talk to anyone about ANY SUBJECT no matter how disgusting or illegal. They work 24/7 and never sleep through the night without being interupted by the phone.

If you can do that, then uh…go ahead.

But, I suggest discovering your limits and being a healthy balanced person while making decent money.

In the long run, the damage can be as costly as the taxes.  OH, and on that note:

Self-employment tax is about 28% plus any state income tax you pay. So, 100k is really 70k.

Good Luck! Any questions, feel free to:

Contact Me for more info.

Candy

 

New Flirt 101

NEW NITEFLIRT PHONE SEX OPERATOR ARROGANCE

First of all, let’s understand that when you come onto the NiteFlirt Forums asking questions about how to run your business, you are asking YOUR COMPETITION.

There are many places where flirts can get help from other flirts without drawing attention to your weaknesses.  Here is one place Flirt Services 

Once other flirt’s know you’re struggling they will use that against you by bidding against you, giving you vague advice and using your newness against you.

My phone sex training can alleviate this trend and help you avoid failing at NiteFlirt.  If I have emailed you and offered help, it is because I have been watching you.  I have seen your constant bidding to be on the front page and when you go busy and for how long.  I have seen your listing and what it lacks. I have monitored your understanding of the NiteFlirt platform.

NEW FLIRT 101 after being offered phone sex training

a.How can I get customers to stay on the phone longer with me? (I could have taught you that)

b.Next question, she asks IN A PUBLIC FORUM, what other’s are doing with their income (do not share personal information with other flirts or customers, never talk about your income)

States her income and veteran flirts tell her “that’s because you’re new, it won’t last” and she’s arrogant enough to state, then “I’ll become new every 90 days” (good luck dear)

c.Do you ever run out of things to say to customers? (no, but you’re a newbie phone sex operator who thinks you know WHAT PHONE SEX IS ABOUT) You clearly don’t.

FAILURES HAPPEN EVERY DAY IN PHONE SEX

Many NiteFlirt Newbies think they know what phone sex is all about.  I have spoken with many ladies who decided not to join NiteFlirt once they understood what is all about.  Phone Sex is hard work.

Offering phone sex does not always mean some random stranger wanting to go down on you and fuck you ‘hard’.  Learn how to become a SUCCESSFUL phone sex operator.

I have 11 years experience in phone sex and own my own line as well as being one of NiteFlirt’s longest lasting highest rated flirts.

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Think you know phone sex?

So, you sat on the front page for weeks making money.

Does sitting on the front page of NiteFlirt paying 100″s of dollars a month {to get calls really work?  Yes. For a time.  If you’re listing is decent enough to attract callers.

Then it stops working.  Why?  I KNOW! Why do I know? 12 years on NiteFlirt! I can tell you.

Well, that’s a paid conversation but I can guarantee you that your time making money from front page placement will end.

Sure, NF’s silly ‘gold ‘star’ awards (internal by the way, customers have no idea what that is) will KEEP ENCOURAGING YOU TO SPEND HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS to stay on the front page; but what will you do when it ends? And, it will end.

I have tutored, schooled, trained and lectured many flirts over the past 2 years about this exact topic.

Some ignored me and kept spending 100’s of dollars per month only to quit phone sex.  Some even paid hundreds per week and made decent cash (some didn’t) but then it stopped working and they kept spending money.  What happened?  Well, some fell away and left the business because they had unrealistic expectations that the front page encouraged.  Some, just gave up because they didn’t know what else to do.  And, some contacted me and got real.

What will you do when NiteFlirt’s front page does not work for YOU any more.

The only thing I can tell you is that making money hand over fist does not happen in the industry. 

Anyone who tells you this is lying or not telling you the whole truth.  The money does not roll in day after day-every day.  And even if it did, especially if it did-you would be competing with many call centers (businesses that use the NiteFlirt platform, create many listings and have many operators answering those listings) and other highly experienced phone sex operators who know more than you do.

There is only way sure way to make it in phone sex.

Work hard, work long, and work smart.

Having issues getting going?  Is your listing wrong?  Do you know what customers are looking for?

Ask me if I can help. Contact me today.  SexyKinkyCandy is not my only listing nor my only job, so using my contact form is best.  Listing design starts at $30 with your photos, content and buttons are extra.

www.niteflirt.com/sexykinkycandy or use my contact form (best way) to reach me faster.

If I have blocked you on NF it’s best to use my contact form. It’s probably because you spammed me or clicked my buttons.

 

 

 

Branding

BRANDING YOUR BUSINESS

What is it and why should you do it?  Brand who? Do what?  Stop right now and think of your favorite burger place.  Do you see the burger or do you see an arch?  Do you see BK?  Do you see a big red “Jack” in the Box or large Big Boy?  All of these are brands.  You look for them when you want a burger right?

Do you offer cam shows?  Have you been offering phone sex on NiteFlirt for more than a year? What would you say is your brand?  Is it your body?  Is it your NiteFlirt phone extension?  Probably not.  Would you say it’s your screen name on NiteFlirt? Righto!  How about your thumbnail?  Yep.

HOW WOULD YOUR CUSTOMERS FIND YOU IF YOU LEFT NITEFLIRT?

Now, I have no idea how long NiteFlirt is going to stay in business.  Hopefully, forever.  Maybe they’ll go out of business tomorrow.  I hope not!  What would happen if they did?  They have crashed before.  What if you wanted to leave the site?  How would potential or old customers find you?  BRANDING.

How do you brand yourself?  I will tell you.

The first thing you need to do is establish a ‘look’.  An identity.  An easy to remember brand.  Using this identity-brand, an image or screen name that say’s hey  that’s me…is imperitive to looking like the professional you are.  Get on social media now!  Get a full website with your own url now. I can do that for you all over the net as a package or create you a full website that gets results on Google.

I have branded a female chef (who is going to be on Food Network Star) and several attorney’s offices.  A look, a screen name and an easily remembered brand is what makes you successful.  Set yourself apart from the others out there who sit back and bid and hope to make more money than they spend.

Get customers from all over the world.  CAM GIRLS, YOU on the other hand have your beautiful face and body and talent.  Get a full website with YOUR NiteFlirt screen name or character so that your current customers can find you if god forbid anything should happen; and so that new customers can come to on NiteFlirt and spend big on you!

Contact Me today!  Full websites start at $150

How to become a phone sex operator

Willing to work hard?
I want you to succeed!

HOW TO BE A SUCCESSFUL PHONE SEX OPERATOR

NOTICE:I do not work with Call Centers on NiteFlirt.
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Learning how to work the website and your account, and learning how to take calls is essential. 

Why am I qualified to teach you phone sex? Because, I have been a full-time income phone sex operator for 11 yrs.  Why would I train my competition? Because, the better you are the better customers who use NiteFlirt are, and they will eventually call me too!

What can you learn from my live 1 on 1 phone sex training?
*Learn how to work your account efficiently
*Learn how to bid, why to bid and what bidding does
*Tips for getting calls without bidding
*How to initiate calls/if you are ‘thinking’ about phone sex: what it’s all about with truth,  honesty and straight forward advice.
*Learn what types of call you can expect
*I will speak with you personally to find out how best to market your phone sex business.  In phone sex, one size does not fit all
*How to multiply your earnings (secrets)
I have a BS in legal studies, a certificate sales and marketing AA, I have hundreds of hours of study in online marketing; including marketing behavior and customer retention. I study SEO weekly.
I have been on NiteFlirt for 10 years and have mastered the business.  As one of Niteflirt’s highest rated flirts I have seen so many new girls come and go.  Will you succeed?

 

FREE ADVICE: Sitting on the front page of NiteFlirt and paying hundreds of dollars to get calls will work for a time, but then it will stop.

When it does, contact me-because you will be trying to find out why you’re phone stopped ringing.