Building a brand in phone sex
How to build a brand in adult content
So, I was recently contacted by a woman who’d never taken a call on NiteFlirt despite being on the site for 2 months. She explained she had experience as a FemDom on a ‘texting’ platform and considered that ‘experience’ in FemDom. Her listings were two lines of text that basically said, ‘Give me your money because you’re a loser’ and I asked her “are you willing to work hard?”
Her response was, I can dedicate more time to building my brand here. I created an account with no prior experience as an operator. I tried using a chat line to build confidence and phone skills. I know I need to create mail items and more offline content. I’m ready to continue.
First of all, she has NO CLIENTS, NO SOCIAL MEDIA PRESENCE, NO PHOTOS, NO COLORS OR A DESIGN OF ANY TYPE, AND NO EXPERIENCE…who told this poor woman she ‘needed to create mail items and offline content? FOR WHO? SHE HAS NO CLIENTS. SELLING WHAT? SHE HAS NO PHOTOS NOR EXPERIENCE. OFFLINE CONTENT?
What brand?
These common mistakes are why I am so passionate about helping women succeed in phone sex and adult related industry work. So many false and misleading information and low-quality offering such as totallipservice.org bad NiteFlirt Layouts with horrible writing and IMO uneducated unskilled ideals of what men who call phone sex lines want!
BUILDING A BRAND TAKES VISION, FOCUS, TIME AND SOME MONEY
According to Shopify, building a brand takes:
- Research your target audience and your competitors.
- Pick your focus and personality.
- Choose your business name.
- Write your slogan.
- Choose the look of your brand (colors and font).
- Design your logo.
FINALLY:
7. Apply your branding across your business and social media (using the same photos, thumbnails and name) and evolve it as you grow.
Marketing sex work or adult related content is a uphill battle. The internet is crowded with porn and free sex sites. How do you compete with that?
How do you compete when you’re new on a website like NiteFlirt or others? Sitting on the front page only gets you calls for a short time, THEN THE CALLS STOP.
I can help you but all in all PHONE SEX IS HARD WORK! IT TAKES COMMITTMENT TO BEING AVAILABLE 9 TO 11 HOURS A DAY, MAKING YOUR CUSTOMERS’ HAPPY AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, GETTING THEM TO CALL YOU AGAIN.
Selling adult related items online is a difficult task as well. You need to offer info/items in a niche market and have a trust built within your clientele. Men are less trusting of independent websites.
Here’s an article that can help you understand selling online.
If you want my help and ask for it, understand that I am not a frilly flowery female who speaks in hugs and kisses, I use BUSINESS LANGUAGE and I am an honest and direct person.
Just like Simon Cowell on Idol…he said he would rather have kept you from spinning your wheels trying to become successful in a business when you’re not right for.
I’ll be glad to train you in phone sex and marketing and build you a design, logo, and brand.
But, I am honest. If you think phone sex is about throwing up a listing and thinking men are going to throw money at you, YOU WILL FAIL. Work hard, follow my program and continue to do so and you will likely succeed.
I have trained over 30 women in phone sex and recently saw one who paid for 2 sessions with me and bought a NiteFlirt layout. She has changed everything and still isn’t following the steps to learn the NiteFlirt platform. I also recently saw her post in the NiteFlirt Flirt’s forum, “why can’t I make any money”? Because, you seem to think you know more than someone who does.
NiteFlirt Slow for you?
PHONE SEX BUSINESS AND THE INEVITABLE SLOW TIMES AHEAD.
All adult businesses have their slow times. NiteFlirt and phone sex is no exception. Summer is the slowest time of the year with kids home from school and one or both parents taking time off of work to watch them and entertain them and go on family vacations. Spring break is also very slow. It seems this country values time-off more than education; families who suffered those 3 full months of school post New Years, Christmas and Thanksgiving NEED to go on yet another vacation.
I’ve built a long term clientele for the last 12 yrs on NiteFlirt and my own 800# and I still have days where the phone doesn’t ring. When it comes to holidays…I’ve seen so many flirt’s in the NiteFlirt asking on bank holidays and others…”Is it slow or what”? Yes! Kids are home and our customers can maybe sit in a corner clicking on your ads but the kids are around and so are their wives and girlfriends and they cannot make a phone call or download content or even sometimes…chat.
Can you imagine? Honey, who are you chatting with? Why so much typing and why can’t you stand up?
What can you do when it’s slow and your phone isn’t ringing? WORK.
PHONE SEX IS HARD WORK.
Even when you’re not on the phone with that difficult to understand, difficult to draw out or just plain weird customer it is STILL WORK. What can you do?
You can blog.
You can spiff up your listings or hire me to do it for you.
Take photos and videos and edit them and upload them to NiteFlirt.
You can research fetishes that you don’t know anything about.
You can learn to write better advertising for your service. Or, hire me.
You can hire a web-designer, like myself or someone else to build you a full website.
You can join other sites to advertise with possible customers who will see your posts.
WHAT NOT TO DO WHEN IT GETS SLOW ON NITEFLIRT
I see it all of the time…adult escorts come onto NiteFlirt in the spring and summer when their own business slows. What you should not do when business gets slow.
Offer up in-person meetings or advertise that you are an escort (against NF policies)
Lower your price…lowering your price when it’s slow is just the opposite of what you should do.
When business is brisk, you can afford to lower your rate, when it’s slow RAISE YOUR RATE.
(hire me as your phone sex operator trainer/consultant and I’ll explain that one to you)
Do not change your listings to make yourself look DESPERATE!
Don’t start offering up disgusting services that you normally don’t because your phone’s not ringing.
eg:
Putting yourself in the number #1 spot on NiteFlirt and advertising for the sick twisted filthy fucked-up perverts for taboo means YOU’RE DESPERATE and it shows this lady is not making any money. No one wants to elicit that type of business unless she feels hundreds of pedophiles and mentally ill bastards are calling everyone but her. They are not. She doesn’t have a reliable clientele and can’t hold on to them if she ever did. I know my customers will call, it just might mean waiting a few days or working longer hours, but they WILL CALL ME.
Paying for higher placement and offering up disgusting filth is not wise.
THIS IS NOT HOW YOU BECOME A MORE PRODUCTIVE MORE SUCCESSFUL PHONE SEX OPERATOR.
Learn NiteFlirt phone sex and marketing, get a better listing that will attract the type of callers you want, and spread your brand on the web with full sized, and professionally designed website with SEO, security and one you can place on Google Ads by contacting me today.
Wishing you all success!
SexyKinkyCandy
Bad Feedback NiteFlirt Phone Sex
Are you getting back feedbacks on NiteFlirt?
This morning I noticed a very cute lil lady on the front page of NiteFlirt. She was obviously bidding A LOT for that position as she has 4 ratings stars with 20 ratings points. Above, you will see why.
This is a no-brainer. She took a couple of calls and had no idea what the guy wanted, or had no idea how to handle his request. So, she freaked and hung up on him and blocked the guy.
OR, as most of us know who have been in phone sex for a long time know, he mentioned BBC! Big Black Cock and this lil black lady didn’t like the sound of that. Little does she know how much money she is missing out on! Black cock lovers pay my bills!!!
I can teach you HOW TO HANDLE DIFFICULT CALLS ON NITEFLIRT
There’s no need to be scared and rush off the phone and block a potential long-term caller! I can teach you how to handle those weird fetishes, submissive man fantasies and all other types of phone sex.
Look, we all get burned out, bitchy and tired of taking phone sex calls all day and into the night day after day after day. It’s normal in any job to get burned out. But, taking phone sex calls can be extra emotionally taxing. I personally don’t do GFE calls very often because I don’t like to be the ‘object’ of someone’s affection or sexual attention and I despise moaning like I’m masturbating.
But, I can teach you GFE phone sex…what it is, what he’s looking for from the call.
Fetish phone sex calls, like foot n shoe, ass sniffing, hair, sneezing (yuk) panty sniffing and more!
But also, cross-dressing men, bi-sexual men, BBC loving men, cuckolding, and being a FemDom
You think you’re a submissive in your personal life so you play one on NiteFlirt, but find you’re just not making the bank you expected. I can help.
Let me teach you how to take phone sex calls on NiteFlirt. We will roleplay those difficult calls and you’ll learn with me instead of losing money like the lady above. Contact Me today!
Fees:
$45 for one hour on Skype audio.
I look forward to making you a success!
Cheers!
Candy
Make money doing phone sex on NiteFlirt
Are you interested in learning the complex, fun and challenging job of being a phone sex operator?
Phone sex can be challenging. You answer your phone and some random guy with a personal interest or fetish in something you have absolutely no experience with wants you to understand him, encourage his fetish or fantasy and ‘get him off’. The problem I hear the most often from NiteFlirt phone sex operators I have trained is, “I though it would be easy”. It’s not.
Oh, you can charge .99 a minute to spout some dirty words with a decent voice and attract the low-brow ‘dummies’ who don’t give a shit who you are, who don’t have anything in particular they want and who spend about $10 per call (if you’re lucky). Those guys won’t call you back often, they call whoever’s cheap and easy.
At .99 cents per minute on the NiteFlirt website, you make
How Much You Will Earn
If you set a price of $0.99 per minute, you will earn $0.56 for a one minute call after the Connection Fee and our fee:
| Price Per Minute that customers will see: |  |
$0.99 | ||
| Connection Charge: | |
– | $0.20 | |
| Our Fee: | |
– | $0.23 | |
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$0.56 | ||
How Much You Will Earn
If you set a price of $1.99 per minute, you will earn $1.26 for a one minute call after the Connection Fee and our fee:
| Price Per Minute that customers will see: | |
$1.99 | ||
| Connection Charge: | |
– | $0.20 | |
| Our Fee: | |
– | $0.53 | |
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| You will earn (per minute): | |
$1.26 | ||
I EARN THREE TIMES MORE THAN A .99 CENTS PHONE SEX OPERATOR MAKES AND TAKE 1/3 FEWER CALLS.
Help for new flirts
And “old” ones.
NITEFLIRT POLICIES AND LISTINGS DESIGNS THAT COST YOU MONEY!
NiteFlirt changed it’s policies on what can and cannot be advertised on NiteFlirt in Feb 2017.
Here are a few changes:
- Explicit or suggested willingness to violate NiteFlirt’s policies such as “no taboos,” “no restrictions,” and “no limits”
- Non-consensual content
- Blood play
- Needle play
- Knife play
- Abduction fantasies
- Forced intoxication
- Some clarification on specific content that will no longer be permitted:
- Castration of any kind
- Vampirism of any kind
- Edge Play
Photo policies:
No nudity, including the nipples areola “pink” of the vagina or anus showing.
Showing bare ass crack is also not allowed. Thongs must seen.
While those who wish to run their own businesses on platforms such as NiteFlirt are indeed their own bosses and their own store manager, you have to obide these rules to use NiteFlirt.
BEING YOUR OWN BOSS MEANS HAVING THE RESPONSIBILITY
If you opened a store front on Main Street, you would get a permit and read or become familiar with all of the laws regarding your store. It is the same for adult phone sex. You must read the site and it’s rules to do business with your store front. If you opened a business, you’d want to ‘brand it’ and know who your customers are, where are they coming from and what are they looking to buy, right? You’d do the work because it’s your business and you want to become successful right?
Unfortunately, this does not happen for many new phone sex operators; and some hard-headed older ones who refuse to accept that flirt’s are your actual competition AND they are busy running their own businesses. So, when you ask multiple questions and then get angry when you don’t understand, other flirt’s don’t ‘owe you anything’. Being hard-headed and claiming you’re a victim will get you nowhere.
Following the rules of NiteFlirt….NiteFlirt violations: What happens to these listings or flirt’s who have not read the site’s rules and follows them is that eventually you’ll bid for placement and other flirts will report the violation on your page. Your listing will get suspended until you correct the issue. No biggy, you’ll correct the issue and get back up and running. Hopefully.
Help with your NITEFLIRT LISTINGS and buttons
June 27, 2-19
When it comes to summer we all suffer from the doldrums of business slowing to a snails pace. Even those dummies who charge $1.00 per min get 3 minute calls after bidding all day long and never make back the money they’ve paid out to NiteFlirt. Summer is a great time to update your NiteFlirt pages/listings and getting help can be a good start. Getting the proper help is essential.
Ask yourself:
1.What do you know about marketing such as tag lines, effective copy writing and demographics?
2.What do you know about Google analytics and what does Google say about bounce rate and do you know how long you have to catch that phone sex customer’s attention when he lands on your page?
3.What do you know about search engines and how they work? How does NiteFlirt’s engine work?
4.What do you know about selling a product specifically for men?
5.What are conversions?
Designing a listing takes more than a pretty graphic.
Anyone can do that! Do men respond to frilly blinking flowers or non-sexual non-sense graphics? Did you know you have approximately 4 seconds to grab a customer’s attention before they click off of your site? Do men want to stay on your NiteFlirt page after seeing a frilly flower? No!
How long do you have to KEEP YOUR CUSTOMER AFTER HE CLICKS ON YOUR PAGE? 4 seconds!
If a hot and horny man clicks on your listing will he see this? Does he have to SCROLL DOWN TO SEE WHAT YOU’RE SELLING?
Bad NiteFlirt designs cost you business and money!
This silly graphic is the FIRST THING a customer sees when landing on this flirts page.
What a ‘GIRL’ finds cute, pretty and attractive will not attract MEN! eg:
You have to grab your customer’s attention IMMEDIATELY. Then you have to sell him something. Then you have to show him what it cost’s, when he can get it and how to buy it.
Learning these things on your own can be time-consuming, I know I’ve spent hundreds of hours learning SEO, Marketing and Google analytics as well as being one of NiteFlirt’s highest rated longest lasting flirt’s, you will get my education and talent.
My latest cam girl web page:
Know what she’s selling
How to get it!
Don’t get caught….
up in the NiteFlirt’s ‘gold star award’ and continuing to PAY FOR IT by sitting on the front page.
It is not difficult to figure out that NiteFlirt hired someone with customer behavorial marketing experience when they brought back bidding and created the intersite (only meant for flirts) awards.
eg:Silver, Bronze and Gold etc…a simple graphic that only YOU can see.
Someone NiteFlirt paid knew that; CERTAIN INDIVIDUALS ARE MOTIVATED BY EXTERNAL AWARDS AND WILL CONTINUE THEIR BEHAVIOR(S) WHICH PROVIDED THEM WITH [THAT] AWARD BECAUSE LOSING IT SEEMS LIKE A FAILURE.
There is a certain culture committed to perfection and the ideal that success is it’s ONLY OPTION. Anything less than perfection is FAILURE. (according to their culture)
PHONE SEX MARKETING WORKS BOTH WAYS, FOR YOU AND AGAINST YOU
As a former real estate agent who sold new homes starting at $249k and going up, I did business with a few of these TYPES of folks who were buying real estate in Florida as investments. I also had a few Korean customers on-site who I met with regularly while their homes were under construction. At one meeting, with her real estate agent interpreter, as I explained IN ADVANCE that there will be problems with her new home. It happens when over 130 men build one structure. Not to worry, I told her…we will correct any problems after you close and report these issues.
Her response? Is it so bad to expect perfection? My response, as nicely as possible, was, yes.
One of my NiteFlirt listing design and phone sex training customers sat on the front page for months paying $2500 to $3000 dollars per month for clicks! When asked what she made in return, she said, her first month was nearly $7000(income)-$3000(clicks)=$4000-%28 (average 1099 income tax) she did OK. I warned her from the start to sit back and build a following, build long-term customers who will click only when they intend to call.
BUT ONE MONTH LATER, she wrote me to say that she is now bidding multiple accounts (2 or 3 different girls) on the front page at the same time and her income has reversed. She is now PAYING MORE FOR BIDS THAN SHE IS MAKING. I REMINDED her that I’d warned her about this trend a month earlier…she laughed and then she went out of her way to market off-site meetings as a result of being desperate.
I’d received one of her in-person meeting emails and it wasn’t a surprise that someone who saw good income at first then became desperate and was still sure there was big money to be made on NiteFlirt.
There is, but sitting on the front page won’t do it. Not for long. And, we have all seen this behavorial model displayed every single day and every single night by one particular flirt who just won’t give up. She continues to advertise she is the highest rated flirt, even though she is not and her listings’ categories change daily because it’s become too EXPENSIVE TO CONTINUE TO promote the same listing which gave her that false sense of perfection and her gold star award.
You can give it a try…but then ask me why and how after you do it yourself, pay for the front page and when you get fed up and broke and tired of paying NiteFlirt for little graphics that lul you into a sense of successfully important phone sex operators on phone sex platforms today…contact me.
Candy
Earn 10k a month in phone sex?
Be very leery of anyone claiming you can make 10 thousand dollars a month in phone sex!
I have seen someone who makes this claim on Amazon.com selling an e-book for basically nothing but who steers ‘her girls’ to IWantClips.com ONLY. Maybe, she is associated with the site or an affliliate.
Very few people make that kind of money! You CAN if you work very very hard, but it’s rare to get 10k every single month of the year! Phone sex has cycles where it gets very busy and other times when it gets very slow. Yes, you may get a cash pig once in a great while, but it is rare. Summer for example is slow.
It is slow for EVERYONE in summer! There isn’t a secret society of men who have no families, friends, jobs, or obligations during Christmas, Spring Break and New Years and oh, when school is out and their kids are at home from school and they go on summer holidays. Most of your phone sex customers are married men in the their 40’s. *according to my google ads accounts
Anyone who steers you toward a site that has no Google Ads (because of their pornographic content) is an affliate. See below.
An affiliate makes money on each new sign-up to the site. Ask yourself this, if she wasn’t associated with them why wouldn’t she suggest and offer training on other sites? Money.
I have seen this woman’s NiteFlirt profile and she hasn’t signed in to it for years and she was in FINANCIAL DOMINATION. Financial Domination is a rare fetish for men and an even more intimidating service to offer/learn for women. Many women don’t have the lack of morals or confidence to do it.
While there are a few very very busy FinDom‘s working every single day to create videos and content to sell, one in France and one in California, they don’t seem to have a private life to speak of and thus are working very very hard at it! Do you want a life? Do you have any problems with putting your face and body all over the internet? If you answer yes to any of these, FinDom is not for you to make a living at.
Be very leery of anyone who gives you something valuable FOR FREE. Nothing is ever free! Phone sex is a fickle business and NiteFlirt and every other platform suffers from slow times. If you don’t believe that, I have included a recent post in the NF forums with the title “Dead” no call for 2 days! There are FAR MORE VIEWS ON THIS ONE POST THAN ANY OTHER! That means, everyone else is slow too!
What you are looking at is that 546 views means that many phone sex operators have gone onto NiteFlirt’s forum to see if EVERYONE ELSE IS SLOW. The average post in the forums gets about 40 views. Very telling!
I can teach you phone sex but I will never fool you into believing that you can make thousands of dollars a week. You can work hard and still not be right for it. Phone sex can be a mentally and emotionally challenging job. If you think you’re right for it, contact me today to get started.
Avoid Bad Feedbacks
With a little training and listing tweek she could have avoided a four star rating!
There are many reasons a flirt will get bad feedbacks. I still get them because I’m picky and a bitch at times who has a very low threshold for dummies.
But, a new flirt (or a new listing) cannot afford to lose her five star NiteFlirt rating. Now, this flirt is stuck with 218 ratings points and a 4 star rating which will take many many 5 stars to change and a listing too highly rated to delete.
However, after contacting her she did delete her other listings with less than 40 points and four stars and bad feedbacks.
Why does this flirt have a four star rating?
After reaching out to her and getting the response I did and seeing that her other listing (character) also had several 1 star ratings, I can tell you:
1.She’s stubborn and strong-headed. (not submissive traits)
2.She thinks she knows marketing. She doesn’t.
3. *She lacks self-awareness.
*What does that mean? According to her feedbacks, she is NOT SUBMISSIVE yet she insists on only advertising herself as submissive. This can be because she’s afraid of being dominant but there’s no reason to be ‘dominant’. Many flirts make good money being a girlfriend experience phone sex operator.
The likely reason this obstinent flirt is getting it wrong is simple. She is confusing her real life sexual interests and style with her phone sex persona. It is most likely because in her real life she enjoys sexual submission with men but:
Offering commercial PHONE SEX IS NOT A REFLECTION OF YOUR OWN SEXUALITY, IT IS THE ABILITY TO ENHANCE YOUR CUSTOMERS’ SEXUALITY AND SEXUAL INTERESTS.
There is also problem with flirts who do not know how to steer problems and calls away from uncomfortable topics. This flirt felt so strongly that she didn’t deserve her feedbacks that she addressed them in her listing which is a no no. However, with a little tweek to her listing she could have avoided that feedback. She also could have, with my NiteFlirt phone sex training, avoided pissing of her customers. By the way, AMister is a NiteFlirt customer EVERYONE SHOULD BLOCK!
He never gives anyone good feedback and is mentally ill. He should have had his privledges to leave feedback revoked a long time ago! Pre-Block AMister on your accounts.
AVOID BAD NITEFLIRT FEEDBACKS by learning how to steer calls and customers away from topics you don’t want to discuss without angering them and get an effective listing design to attract the customers you want, not the one’s you don’t.
FlirtWebDesign and NiteFlirt phone sex training by Candy.
$45 for one hour of audio only live 1 on 1 phone sex training and $30 listing design.
Engage Clients
There are many talented graphic artists who can make your listing stand-out! You need to engage your customers when they click, get them to stick around and then call you. DO NOT PUT BLINKING FLASHING GRAPHICS ON YOUR NITEFLIRT PAGE!
It’s important that you shine and excite your customers when they click on your listing especially if you’re paying NiteFlirt for placement. One way to do that is engage them with your own photos and a list of things you enjoy. Another is to offer moving graphics. (not blinking graphics).
One way to turn off your NiteFlirt phone sex caller is to have a slick fancy “too professional” looking design. They kinda want to know you’re not fake or polished and that you’re fun to talk with.
FlirtWebDesign by Candy NiteFlirt Listings and Phone Sex Training
I specialize in a mix of both nice and professional looking but not so fancy as to turn off your customer. No pathetic fake ‘bio’ stories like one over-priced “Diva” call center and listings seller. I provide personal copywriting services so that your customers know who is answering the phone. I don’t want you to be someone else, I want you to be you!
I also design animated GIF images, YouTube ads, and social headers for Facebook and Twitter.
Here is a simple banner I put together. You can have your own with your photos and linked to your listings for only $20+30% that NiteFlirt takes.
Contact Me if you’re interested in engaging your audience.