Get design and training references! (Don’t pay without them)

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DECEMBER 14, 2020

Why overpay for NITEFLIRT LISTINGS AND CAM GIRL LAYOUTS? Get excellent copy writing and a phone sex layouts designed just for you!  My newest!  Contact Me for yours today! Only $40 and up!

Today, I was contacted by someone who paid $30 to a flirt who has yet to deliver her NiteFlirt listing layout.  Reported: “She disappeared for a few days then we’ve gone back and fourth, and she’s asked me questions” but it seems to be a very basic page”.  IF SOMEONE CANNOT DELIVER A DESIGN OR LAYOUT TO YOU WITHIN 72 HOURS, DON’T PAY.  GET REFERENCES AND SEE HER PREVIOUS DESIGNS BEFORE YOU PAY.

This person said the flirt is clearly not qualified to design anything and that it was clearly ‘basic’ and that her skills are, “basic”.  According to this potential cam girl and phone sex operator, the flirt has only been helpful via email helping her to understand the NiteFlirt platform.

ONLY PAY ONCE YOU’VE SEEN A PORTFOLIO OF DESIGNS AND CONTACTED REFERENCES.

While I don’t blame someone for trying to open a new business but doing so without the qualifications you are promoting makes NITEFLIRT WEB DESIGN AND PHONE SEX TRAINING flirts’ like myself look bad.  You create a lack of trust just like those ‘Diva’s’ who over-charge for shitty ‘written’ training and over used templates.

I have references and just this month have trained 4 new women on the NiteFlirt ‘bidding’ system and platform training, including phone sex training and listing design.

Cam girls! There is a huge opening in the cam category for a serious talented hard-working cam girl to take over on NiteFlirt!  Just browse the cam category (I started in cam in 2007) and see that after 3 pages in it turns into dead air.  Bad feedbacks, no ratings points, and listings with no photos and cons.

The NiteFlirt cam listings used to be full of hot sexy successful hard working women.

“Hot Wife Laura” Sandy WoW and more!  Oh, and me!

Now, it’s full of “tribute me first” or hang ups because they are in Russia or overseas and leave their service on day and night and cannot take the call when it comes in.

Being ready to go when a customer calls is essential to success in cam modeling.

Not to mention, although I will…all of the “I don’t cam boys” listings!  HUH?  What are you doing offering a cam service without getting on cam?  So, here is my latest sexy cam model layouts and I hope you are ready to take over that category and make some good money!

Contact Me today for references and phone sex training.

 

 

NiteFlirt Layouts (affordable trustworthy)

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Welcome to our newest beautiful Domme on NiteFlirt. As you can see, when you have professional photos your listings really look great!
Don’t overpay certain “woman owned” phone sex layouts’ companies who charge $400 and more and expect YOU to write a biography!
BTW, NO ONE CARES ABOUT YOUR LIFE! lol
Phone Sex customers want to know what you’ll do for THEM, NOT WHERE YOU’VE LIVED, TRAVELED WHAT YOU DO FOR OTHER WORK AND YOUR ARTISTIC ADVENTURES!
Contact ME TODAY TO GET YOUR OWN CUSTOM DESIGNED PHONE SEX LAYOUT.

Phone Sex Jobs (call centers on NiteFlirt are bad for business)

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YOU DO NOT NEED A CALL CENTER TO WORK IN PHONE SEX ON NITEFLIRT

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Below you will see listings all run by a call center on NiteFlirt.  I can tell you that “making you cum” is probably the owner, or Pleasure PlayPen is.  Either way, they are ruining the extra kinky phone sex category on NiteFlirt.  You will notice none of them have NAMES.  These low brow, low priced and low quality CALL CENTERS ON NITEFLIRT ARE RUINING NITEFLIRT!  Why?

Because when you click on one or all of these listings except the cheap lowbrow one called Making You Cum, because she is the owner; you will see different screen names in the feedbacks.

One such listing even had the feedback, “suspect” as her review.

NiteFlirt phone sex customers enjoy the knowledge that the SAME GIRL WILL ANSWER THE PHONE EACH TIME THEY CALL.  They want to be remembered.  They want to know they are NOT GETTING CHEATED, LIED TO, AND BAMBOOZELED.

This creates suspicion when they call ME! Let’s say you’re new on NiteFlirt and a bit uneasy with your calls.  These guys will assume you are a call center and they will hang up on you and never call you back.

IF YOU ENCOUNTER ADS OFFERING PHONE SEX OPERATOR WORK, STOP! YOU DO NOT NEED THESE WOMEN TO MAKE MONEY! PLUS, AT A PATHETIC $1 PER MIN, YOU WILL GET PAID 1/5TH WHAT YOU CAN MAKE ON YOUR OWN.

SHE DOES NOT TRAIN HER OPERATORS.  SHE DOESN’T EVEN HAVE THE SENSE TO TELL THEM TO PLAY THE SAME CHARACTER WITH THE SAME NAME SHE USED ON THE PRIOR OPERATOR.

THE TURN OVER IS HIGH! SHE IS UNPREPARED, UNDER-PRICED, UNDER CLASSED AND UNDERMINING THE PHONE SEX INDUSTRY!  She pays lower than anyone in the business!

See my Ripoffs page for more info!

Phone Sex Jobs are available with NiteFlirt without any investment, do not work for a call centers, and you can hire someone to train you, learn on your own, get some marketing advice and get a nice listing all for the price of a days work on NiteFlirt.

I have a fall promotion for NiteFlirt live 1 on 1 phone sex training, listing design, and social media graphic all for $90

You can make that back in one day!

Candy

Flirts clicking on flirt’s buttons

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NOT A GOOD IDEA TO CAUSE WORK FOR OTHER FLIRTS,

ESPECIALLY VETERAN FLIRTS

I may look young at my ripe old age and in my 13 yrs on NiteFlirt but I am not. LOL

When I started as a cam girl on NiteFlirt in 2007 I wouldn’t have known better than to click on other flirt’s buttons, but I do now!  Why would you do that except to try and ‘learn’ something or better yet, to steal someone’s ideas or work product.  If you don’t know what buttons do, where they go and how to use them, read NiteFlirt’s robust help section.  But, don’t go clicking on other flirt’s buttons!

I TEACH OTHER FLIRTS this business,.  I also design listings, teach marketing techniques and how to do phone sex as well as how to become a FemDom.  I also work multiple accounts regularly and I work as a paralegal for an attorney in DC, so my days are pretty full and my time is valuable!

When a flirt clicks a button; while it’s not always immediatley obvious its a flirt with so many sissy screen names and the button clicked is worth $150 it causes me to do something EVERYONE SHOULD BE DOING and that’s following up.

I did just that today, when I discovered a sent pay to view for $150 to ‘someone’.  I discovered it was a flirt and couldn’t find the button anywhere on my listings.  It may have been on one of my numerous websites, I am not sure. I’d like to know where that button is, so I wrote her.

I DO KNOW HOW THE BUTTON WAS SENT TO THE FLIRT SINCE, I’M NOT NEW TO THIS. (she clicked it)

I see in my ‘sent mail’ a payment request for chastity.  Here is a screen shot.  It was not me having sent it to a flirt for God’s sake, I think I’d know better and unless she has a cock, chastity wouldn’t work.

Although, she ‘thinks’ she’s got a cock and when asked ‘where’d you get that button’ to click, this little girl apparently didn’t know who she was responding to, and expected to top me. LOL

Since I have no idea where the fucking button IS, it’s very doubtful I would have sent it to her or any other flirt for that matter.  But, when I inquired, her response was offensive!

Sometimes, communicating with women in this business is an excersise in futility.

I am short on patience and long on memory, so when someone is offensive to me for no apparent reason, I lash out!  And, when I lash out, you are getting all of the pent up phone sex operator dealing with men on the phone for 13 yrs lashes!  LOL

The reason you don’t fuck with other flirt’s buttons is pretty clear:

  1. It takes up my time and energy to follow up
  2. Many people in this business are dumb and communicating with them is futile and exhausting
  3. You are only trying to steal work product
  4. You may be trying to learn from someone who charges to teach!

Being ‘Nice” or Being a Victim (sex work)

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Recently, I was reading some sex worker forum posts where a woman was complaining about a ‘stalker’ issue and although she never asked a question or advice, she did receive many responses.
First of all, when you post in a forum designed to ‘help’ it’s best to ask a question, or ask for advice directly related to your issue…and get to it asap.  Most people don’t read(as I post this I realize this too) and our attention spans have greatly reduced from 11 seconds to read a post or look at a website down to about 4 seconds (Google analytics) and average is about 3 to 4 minutes TOTAL.

One of the respones prompted this from the original post(er)

“I believe in treating people the way I wish to be treated”

THERE IS A DIFFERENCE IN TREATING OTHERS KINDLY AND BEING A WILLING VICTIM

Sex work can be dangerous, difficult and stressful on a good day, but to ‘be kind’ to someone harrassing you is not part of your job!  It is NOT your responsibility to be the RED CROSS for every fucker out there who has personality disorders such as, fixations, narcissistic tendencies, gaslighters, abusive pricks with anger issues or guys who just can’t let go of a good thing and seperate paid for sex entertainment from their every day life.

YOU ARE THERE TO MAKE A LIVING AND DO SOMETHING YOU ENJOY [FOR CUSTOMERS WHO PAY!]

You don’t owe anyone anything.  You should be polite and professional to your awesome paying customers, and friendly more than average to your favorites, but that’s all you owe yourself or them.

BEING NICE:

It’s okay to pick up a stray dog and take it to a rescue shelter and it’s okay to open doors for others, it is NOT OKAY TO PUT UP WITH MENTALLY ILL ABUSIVE MEN WHO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR ONLINE AVAILABILITY!

1.Skype has options to block anyone and also has options to “only allow people on your contacts list”

2. NiteFlirt has a block option, use it.  If the customer changes his screen name and continues to contact you, write NiteFlirt’s customer support team with his prior name and a screen shot of your block and his new one and ask them to remind him of their policies.

Lastly, don’t go around complaining about someone and when given advice or suggestions, don’t turn around and say “well, I believe in treating everyone the way I want to be treated” it makes you look weak and pathetic and a willing victim who simply likes to complain.

“Let’s make it a reality” Big Mistake!

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Almost every day I see this statement on new phone sex operator’s pages. It’s a simple mistake to claim when you have no idea what else to say. Learning who you are, or who you will be in phone sex can take some time. But, let’s face it, there’s one thing you can and will never do for your NiteFlirt customers. MAKE THEIR FANTASIES COME TRUE.

Phone Sex fantasies are best left in the realm of fantasy.

You’re selling a service.  You are not advertising false promises or unrealistic expectations. You are offering a service via a double-blind and anonymous platform.  Your customers can come from a prison or a mansion.  But one thing is true: they are calling you because it’s anonymous. They aren’t looking for reality, they are looking for an escape from reality. And, it’s not a dating service!

NEVER AGREE TO MEET ANYONE FROM NITEFLIRT FOR AN IN-PERSON DATE.

The majority of customer’s who come to a phone sex operator are looking for someone with a great imagination who can articulate his ‘fantasy’ into something even more exciting than what he’s already thought of or what another phone sex operator has..YOU CANNOT MAKE THESE SEX FANTASIES COME TRUE SO STOP CLAIMING SO.  And, most wouldn’t want them to come true!  NOTHING LIKE OVER-PROMISING AND UNDER DELIVERING to ensure a business failure.

Just have fun!

It’s all fake.

Enjoy!

 

You failed at phone sex

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become a phone sex operator, learn niteflirt, teach me phone sex,I see NITEFLIRT FRONT PAGE        FAILURES EVERY DAY.  Is that you?

May 7, 2020 When I see room for improvement in a listing or a flirt who has bad feedbacks because her copy isn’t written well, I will reach out and suggest my sevices. Yes, I am offering a paid service but by offering my services I am essentially offering a chance at success.  This morning, I did just that.  May 7th 2020.

This is the email I sent to a flirt offering CAM ON NITEFLIRT with 4 ratings stars 9 points and only 1 feedback that stated she didn’t get nude and had bad audio quality. listing below….

Good morning, I just saw you on the front page. I design listings for NiteFlirt cam girls. If we get you a beautiful listing with your photos and more information you will make more money and avoid bad feedback. You can see my portfolio at

www.flirtwebdesign.com 

 It’s normally $40 US but for you and because things are difficult right now I can do a listing for you for $30. You can pay here. If there’s anything I can do for you let me know. 

 And welcome! Candy 

The response I got was horrific!  This stubborn girl has no idea what she’s doing, got bad feedback and was paying NiteFlirt for clicks that ARE NOT MAKING HER ANY MONEY!!!!  Then we she gets an offer for help, she tells me to fuck off?  Mistake.  One that will and has cost her money and time and success in phone sex.

Without clicking on my website, my member name to see if I am a long time flirt or even just ignoring my email, stupid idiot basically wrote back and told me to fuck off and now she’s pissed me off. 

ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST in PHONE SEX CAM WITH PHONE ON NITEFLIRT

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See Skype ID in listing
she could have avoided getting suspended if she weren’t so stubborn, I would have corrected that mistake and written her a great listing explaining, ” I am a latina, english is my second language, I am out of the US and I don’t get nude.  LOL

When someone offers you help in life, the best thing you can do is say thank you.  The worst thing you can do is spit in their eye, because it’s at that moment you create your destiny.

Don’t make the same mistakes as this girl. She will leave the site (and more the better) and leave without making a profit.  A little professionalism goes a long way in phone sex.

If you aren’t interested in help, just say nothing or say, No, thank you.  It’s that simple.  We were all new once upon a time.  Now, reading the site’s rule isn’t that hard, it takes about 45 minutes to fully read the FLIRT POLICY.  Then, look around the forums for help and ask questions.  Use common sense to avoid being stalked by being naive or thinking NiteFLIRT is a dating site.  It is not.  It is a commercial adult sex site and you are a provider of a service.

Most of all, IT’S A BUSINESS AND USING BUSINESS LANGUAGE IS ESSENTIAL.

Online Safety for Phone Sex Workers

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KEEP YOURSELF SAFE WHILE WORKING ON ADULT SITES AS A PHONE SEX OPERATOR

A brand new flirt recently posted:

One of my customers was able to find my real life social media profiles AND where I live. He Google searched my first name, city, and the industry I work in for my day job and was able to find my full name. Even though I’m not tagged in the post, my apartment complex posted a picture of me with my full name on their socials so once this customer had figured out my name, he found that post as well. I wear a Fitbit and the customer noticed my Fitbit in both my NiteFlirt profile and my personal social media accounts. This was what convinced him it was definitely me.

SHE GAVE SOME RANDOM STRANGER ON A PHONE SEX CALL ALL OF THIS INFO!!!!

This is the newest addition to a long line of new phone sex operators who have either posted or come to me about being stalked online.  As you can see by the self-admitted responsibility highlighted in the text above, this young lady has NO CLUE HOW TO STAY SAFE ONLINE AS A SEX WORKER.  She actually gave a customer this personal information.

While some may disagree that being a phone sex operator is sex work, it is sex work online.  Men from all over the world call you.  There is no background check of your callers thus you can speak with prisoners who are in prision for rape and stalking, assault and battery and so much worse. You can talk to, and most likely will speak with mentally ill men who have sever personality disorders, fixations, narcissistic tendies, paranoid , gaslighters and schizophrenics and more.  You will speak with lonely disfuctional social outcasts who take one little ounce of kindness you give them and become obsessed with you.

HOW TO STAY SAFE AS AN ONLINE SEX WORKER-PHONE SEX OPERATOR

  • Realize that phone sex, even if the word ‘flirt’ is in the title of the website it is SEX WORK.
  • You are now on the adult side of the internet/sexual conversation-communication of the internet
  • Your online information, including your real name, location, family and photos should NEVER BE SHARED WITH YOUR ONLINE SEX WORKER PROFILE.
  • No amount of money is worth your life or your safety
  • NEVER reveal your real identity to ANYONE, a mentally savvy criminal can fool even the smartest and street-smart among us
  • READ the rules of any site you work on.  If you don’t read the policies of the website you work on you are going to face suspension of your account or deletion or banishment
  • NEVER USE your own real photos, they can be reversed image searched.  Use your body without your face and DO NOT USE PHOTOS FROM SOCIAL MEDIA SITES like facebook, twitter et al.
  • Use a fake name and always use the same name!  Remember who you are and use it along with a fake location
  • Wish list addresses can be seen on Amazon.com if the seller changes from ‘shipped by Amazon.com” and the address delivery will be seen.  Nothing is worth having your front door ring and have HIM standing there.
  • Never click a link given to you by a customer unless you are ON NITEFLIRT OR THE SITE YOU WORK ON.  Any click by a computer can be revealed by many many software programs and give them your IP ADDRESS.  That can be google mapped and your general location found.
  • NEVER CLICK ON ANYTHING FROM YOUR PHONE!!  Your phone has location services that most us use for Google Maps and stuff…THAT IS HOW someone can find you too!  I have.
  • Never go off-site for payment.  Guys can get your real name from PayPal…gmail, and many other payment sites.  They can also REVERSE THOSE CHARGES on GiftRocket.com and others.

  • CAM SAFETY:

  • Never use your smart phone with location services ON to do cam shows. 
  • There are several Skype hacker programs on the internet.  These programs allow a person to see where you are located and most importantly THEY CAN HACK YOUR CAM EVEN WHEN YOU’RE NOT ON it doing business.  They can watch and listen to you all of the time your laptop is open, your Ipad is on, or your desktop is on. eg:http://global.drfone.biz/gl/hack/how-to-hack-skype.html
  • Beware of what is behind you or in your room!  Many Skype Cam Girl customers will take photos of you while you’re on cam, or record your session.  This can be later enlarged and they can read your mail if it’s nearby (your name address) and/or they can see out a window to a car tag.
  • Be sure no pictures of children even if they aren’t yours are not behind you…this can be seen as Child Porn and you can get arrested.
  • Always use your screen name during the session or better yet, put a sign with your website, your screen name or your platform site eg:www.niteflirt.com/sexykinkycandy behind you during your shows.  If you do this, those same customers cannot reproduce your session to pornhub or the like.
  • Never reveal your phone number to anyone, this can be used by calling Dominos Pizza and when you give them the PHONE NUMBER they search their database and say, So and So at 123 Powder Puff Way? And bamm! Your customer/stalker has your address.

Stay on the website you work on and you should be safe with payments

Being a phone sex operator or a FemDomme or a lifestyle Mistress are all the same, they are SEX WORKERS and anyone who comes into this business without doing some research and using BASIC COMMON SENSE is going to get stalked, harrassed, used and abused or worse.

USING YOUR COMMON SENSE CAN SAVE YOUR LIFE!

 

 

Do you know NiteFlirt’s (many) RULES?

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This morning I saw one of my former clients on the front page so I clicked to see my design, I always like to see if someone has kept it or changed my FlirtWebDesign.com paid for design and sure enough, she’d added some language that was against NiteFlirt policy.
In case you didn’t read their policies before you started or simply didn’t know where to find them, here ya go!

By the way, you can avoid all of this by hiring me as your NiteFlirt layout designer.

NITEFLIRT’S PHOTO POLICIES:

Although Niteflirt does not accept responsibility for these photos, Niteflirt does reserve the right to remove at any time, without notice, any photo or image.

NiteFlirt does not permit photos that contain nudity, pornographic material, models under the age of 18, or content that violates any portion of the NiteFlirt User Agreement to be posted on Flirt Profiles, Listings or Goody Bag thumbnails.

Members may not upload, post or otherwise transmit any photo which is unlawful, harmful, threatening, harassing, tortuous, defamatory, infringing, vulgar, obscene, hateful, racially or ethnically objectionable or invasive of another’s privacy. In addition, Members may not post or otherwise transmit any content that infringes any patent, trademark, trade secret, copyright or any other proprietary rights of any party, or material protected by intellectual property laws, right of privacy or publicity or any other applicable law, unless having all necessary contracts or consents. In addition, Flirts must adhere to all record keeping requirements such as Sections 2257/2257A of Title 18 of the US Code when applicable.

(THAT MEANS IF YOU BUY ‘CONTENT OF A MODEL’ YOU MUST HAVE HER ID AND MODEL RELEASE)

NiteFlirt considers nudity to include any portion of genitalia, pubic hair, female areola, or “butt crack.” This includes photos with models wearing transparent clothing, photos of sex toys, and cartoon depictions of pornography and sexual activity.

We do allow photos that are altered to cover the nudity. This includes graphics or strategically placed hands or other objects. However, the nudity must be completely covered and may not be covered by flesh-colored graphics. Nude female breasts, with even the slightest display of female areola, are not permitted. If a model in the Transgender category has breasts which were augmented to appear as female breasts, they may not appear as nude. If a model’s body is male, the photos may be topless. In addition, displaying fully exposed breasts that do not have nipples, regardless of if it is natural or an altered image, is not permitted. NiteFlirt allows photos of models wearing thong underwear as long as it is apparent that the model is wearing underwear. If you post a photo of a model in a thong but the thong can not be seen and there is “crack” showing, we will not permit the photo.

In regards to pornographic images, NiteFlirt does not permit photos of sex toys or images of models engaging in sexually explicit activity, even if that activity is covered by graphics. Images of paddles, ball gags and whips are permitted.

NiteFlirt does not permit photos of bodily fluids. Further, NiteFlirt does not permit photos containing animals or depictions of animals. Animal content can be construed as bestiality or under age fantasies and therefore are not permitted.

Members are permitted to send nudity and pornographic content via NF Mail and Chat and sell them in Goody Bags.

Photos, images or depictions containing children or models under the age of 18 are not permitted on NiteFlirt, under any circumstance. If NiteFlirt learns of any illegal images or images of children posted on the Site or exchanged between members, NiteFlirt will immediately terminate the associated accounts and report the incident to NCMEC.

FLIRT POLICIES: WHAT YOU CAN WRITE AND NOT WRITE ON YOUR LISTINGS AND HOMEPAGES

 

Prohibited Content
When using NiteFlirt, including but not limited to NF Mail, Chat and Calls, or creating content for listings, Goody Bags, Chat, NF Mail and leaving Feedback, Members are expected to follow all applicable federal, state, and local laws, regulations, and ordinances relating to obscene and indecent content and communications. While obscenity is not always easy to define and depends on the standards in your area, NiteFlirt specifically prohibits any listing or mail that includes, without limitation, the following subject matter:

  • Child Pornography or any depiction of a child. Discussions about your kids, what you were like before you were 18, the term “Lolita” or kids in general is not allowed. Wish lists with children’s items are not permitted. Images of children are not permitted. If a photo includes a minor under the age of 18, it is not permitted on NiteFlirt.
  • Incest and Incest Fantasies including “step” relations and “Daddy,” “Mommy,” “Grandmother,” “Aunt,” or any fantasy about a family member. Even a third cousin twice removed. No family relations, period. Flirts may use terms like Grandma, Mother, or the like if, and only if, it is used to describe their character. While you may use the term MILF or GILF no other terms for “Mother”, “Daddy”, “Grandmother” or other family members are allowed in Member Names.
  • Underage Role-Play, including all types of Age Play.
  • Bestiality, including images or depictions of animals (don’t even mention your favorite puppy)
  • Rape Sex, Rape Fantasies or other non-consensual content (even if consented to) including abduction fantasies and forced intoxication.
  • Penetration with all four limbs bound
  • Blood, knife or needle play
  • Toilet, Scat, Urination, Enemas, Roman Showers and Menstrual content, or anything related or that could be construed as one of these topics.
  • ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lovers), Adult Babies
  • Crushing of animals including insects
  • Fisting
  • Racial slurs
  • Drugs including the use of illegal drugs, medical marijuana, 420 culture, or images of drugs.
  • Explicit or suggested willingness to violate NiteFlirt’s policies such as “no taboos”, “no limits” and “no restrictions”. This is new as of May 2017
  • Escort services or in-person meetings

Learn to become a phone sex operator

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