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NiteFlirt Slow for you?

PHONE SEX BUSINESS AND THE INEVITABLE SLOW TIMES AHEAD.

All adult businesses have their slow times.  NiteFlirt and phone sex is no exception.  Summer is the slowest time of the year with kids home from school and one or both parents taking time off of work to watch them and entertain them and go on family vacations.  Spring break is also very slow.  It seems this country values time-off more than education; families who suffered those 3 full months of school post New Years, Christmas and Thanksgiving NEED to go on yet another vacation.

I’ve built a long term clientele for the last 12 yrs on NiteFlirt and my own 800# and I still have days where the phone doesn’t ring.  When it comes to holidays…I’ve seen so many flirt’s in the NiteFlirt asking on bank holidays and others…”Is it slow or what”?  Yes! Kids are home and our customers can maybe sit in a corner clicking on your ads but the kids are around and so are their wives and girlfriends and they cannot make a phone call or download content or even sometimes…chat.

Can you imagine? Honey, who are you chatting with? Why so much typing and why can’t you stand up?

What can you do when it’s slow and your phone isn’t ringing?  WORK. 

PHONE SEX IS HARD WORK. 

Even when you’re not on the phone with that difficult to understand, difficult to draw out or just plain weird customer it is STILL WORK. What can you do?

You can blog.

You can spiff up your listings or hire me to do it for you.

Take photos and videos and edit them and upload them to NiteFlirt.

You can research fetishes that you don’t know anything about.

You can learn to write better advertising for your service. Or, hire me.

You can hire a web-designer, like myself or someone else to build you a full website.

You can join other sites to advertise with possible customers who will see your posts.

 

WHAT NOT TO DO WHEN IT GETS SLOW ON NITEFLIRT

I see it all of the time…adult escorts come onto NiteFlirt in the spring and summer when their own business slows.  What you should not do when business gets slow.

Offer up in-person meetings or advertise that you are an escort (against NF policies)

Lower your price…lowering your price when it’s slow is just the opposite of what you should do.

When business is brisk, you can afford to lower your rate, when it’s slow RAISE YOUR RATE.

(hire me as your phone sex operator trainer/consultant and I’ll explain that one to you)

Do not change your listings to make yourself look DESPERATE!

Don’t start offering up disgusting services that you normally don’t because your phone’s not ringing.

eg:

HER HEADLINE SCREAMS DESPERATION!!

Putting yourself in the number #1 spot on NiteFlirt and advertising for the sick twisted filthy fucked-up perverts for taboo means YOU’RE DESPERATE and it shows this lady is not making any money.  No one wants to elicit that type of business unless she feels hundreds of pedophiles and mentally ill bastards are calling everyone but her.  They are not.  She doesn’t have a reliable clientele and can’t hold on to them if she ever did.  I know my customers will call, it just might mean waiting a few days or working longer hours, but they WILL CALL ME.

Paying for higher placement and offering up disgusting filth is not wise.

THIS IS NOT HOW YOU BECOME A MORE PRODUCTIVE             MORE SUCCESSFUL PHONE SEX OPERATOR. 

Learn NiteFlirt phone sex and marketing, get a better listing that will attract the type of callers you want, and spread your brand on the web with full sized, and professionally designed website with SEO, security and one you can place on Google Ads by contacting me today.

Wishing you all success!

SexyKinkyCandy

 

 

Bad Feedback NiteFlirt Phone Sex

 

Are you getting back feedbacks on NiteFlirt?

bad feedbacks on niteflirt
This morning I noticed a very cute lil lady on the front page of NiteFlirt. She was obviously bidding A LOT for that position as she has 4 ratings stars with 20 ratings points.  Above, you will see why.

This is a no-brainer. She took a couple of calls and had no idea what the guy wanted, or had no idea how to handle his request. So, she freaked and hung up on him and blocked the guy.
OR, as most of us know who have been in phone sex for a long time know, he mentioned BBC! Big Black Cock and this lil black lady didn’t like the sound of that. Little does she know how much money she is missing out on!  Black cock lovers pay my bills!!!

I can teach you HOW TO HANDLE DIFFICULT CALLS ON NITEFLIRT

There’s no need to be scared and rush off the phone and block a potential long-term caller!  I can teach you how to handle those weird fetishes, submissive man fantasies and all other types of phone sex.

Look, we all get burned out, bitchy and tired of taking phone sex calls all day and into the night day after day after day.  It’s normal in any job to get burned out.  But, taking phone sex calls can be extra emotionally taxing.  I personally don’t do GFE calls very often because I don’t like to be the ‘object’ of someone’s affection or sexual attention and I despise moaning like I’m masturbating.

But, I can teach you GFE phone sex…what it is, what he’s looking for from the call.

Fetish phone sex calls, like foot n shoe, ass sniffing, hair, sneezing (yuk) panty sniffing and more!

But also, cross-dressing men, bi-sexual men, BBC loving men, cuckolding, and being a FemDom

You think you’re a submissive in your personal life so you play one on NiteFlirt, but find you’re just not making the bank you expected.  I can help.

Let me teach you how to take phone sex calls on NiteFlirt.  We will roleplay those difficult calls and you’ll learn with me instead of losing money like the lady above.  Contact Me today!

Fees:

$45 for one hour on Skype audio.

I look forward to making you a success!

Cheers!

Candy

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Engage Clients

There are many talented graphic artists who can make your listing stand-out! You need to engage your customers when they click, get them to stick around and then call you. DO NOT PUT BLINKING FLASHING GRAPHICS ON YOUR NITEFLIRT PAGE!

It’s important that you shine and excite your customers when they click on your listing especially if you’re paying NiteFlirt for placement.  One way to do that is engage them with your own photos and a list of things you enjoy. Another is to offer moving graphics. (not blinking graphics).

One way to turn off your NiteFlirt phone sex caller is to have a slick fancy “too professional” looking design.  They kinda want to know you’re not fake or polished and that you’re fun to talk with.

FlirtWebDesign by Candy NiteFlirt Listings and Phone Sex Training

I specialize in a mix of both nice and professional looking but not so fancy as to turn off your customer.  No pathetic fake ‘bio’ stories like one over-priced “Diva” call center and listings seller.  I provide personal copywriting services so that your customers know who is answering the phone.  I don’t want you to be someone else, I want you to be you!

I also design animated GIF images, YouTube ads, and social headers for Facebook and Twitter.

Here is a simple banner I put together.  You can have your own with your photos and linked to your listings for only $20+30% that NiteFlirt takes.

Contact Me if you’re interested in engaging your audience.

 

 

Making money in phone sex

SET YOUR GOALS REALISTICALLY THEN GO FOR MORE!

There has been some talk lately about the realistic prospect that you can make “six figures’ in phone sex on NiteFlirt.  While I agree that some extremely hard working, very long time phone sex opertors may make something near that, I have proof from an owner/customer relations expert that very few do.

In an article published in 2016 by “The Life of a Phone Sex Operator” on www.Priceonomics.com one such person we all know as Erin M. on NiteFlirt stated:

Although the work can be lucrative, it appears that only a minority make a full-time living from phone sex. Erin M. of Niteflirt says the site has tens of thousands of active accounts, but fewer than 2,000 make over $10,000 a year. Niteflirt users who earn that much, Erin says, tend to devote 40-hour weeks to their business. For most PSOs, phone sex supplements other income or fills a small budget deficit. 

IS IT POSSIBLE TO MAKE SIX FIGURES IN PHONE SEX (maybe)

Quick fact: To make $100k per year charging 1.50 pm an operator would have to be on the phone:

FIVE HOURS A DAY 365 DAYS A YEAR that’s EVERY SINGLE DAY OF THE YEAR!

  NITEFLIRT INCOME POTENTIAL

As we can all see by forum posts and from those of us who have been in the business for many years, NiteFlirt does not have that level of traffic day after day 365 days a year.  I don’t care who you are!  If you can get five hours of calls every single day of year on NiteFlirt alone, you are indeed alone in that.  Even to average that would be very difficult. You would need to be available 24/7.

Summer, for example can be tremendously slow.  Also, the American Holidays such as Christmas and Easter (Spring Break for school kids) can be awful.  Phone sex is really only good six month a year.

Let’s talk about selling content rather than getting five hours of calls every single day of the year.

Let’s say she gets 2.5 hours of phone calls every single day of the year, without fail on average. That same flirt would have to sell 50,000 dollars worth of content every single year to make 100,000 dollars per year.

Be forewarned when anyone tells you how much money they make, they embellish. They embellish for ego, competiveness and other reasons. Also, you don’t know how many platforms she works on or what she’s doing in terms of off-site income.

CAN A NEWBIE ON NITEFLIRT EXPECT TO MAKE 100K PER YEAR?

As with any new business there is sometimes a surge in excitement for a new product.  Unfortunately, that surge is often followed by a down-swing in sales.  That’s the front page issues I spoke of previously.

With NiteFlirt, for example, there aren’t that many customers really…they come and go year after year-the same guys who say the same thing, like the same fantasies and ask for the same type of calls no matter who he speaks with.  Phone sex is a small world.

If you are new to phone sex and want to make part-time income you can count on some EXTRA INCOME but don’t quit a good paying steady job for phone sex until you KNOW you can make it.

I can help you learn the business, maybe change some bad habits you learned by call centers.  Or, unlearn what you thought phone sex was.  “oh, baby stuff your cock down my throat” etc…

What I will not EVER do is fill your head with false information and set you up for a let-down.  You can make good money, if you’re willing to WORK VERY HARD.  But, not everyone is going to be good at it and not everyone is suited for it. Do not expect to sign up and turn on your phone and the calls start pouring in. It is a job.

It is an investment, it is your own personal business. 

What you put into it, is generally what you get out of it.

But, you should devote 40 or more hours per week (7 day week) and do what very few women have the mental capacity to do.  Listen the sometimes vulgar grunting and panting sexual conversations day after day while men ejaculate and not let it get in your head.  It is a hard business.  There are nasty conversations with really nice gents, and then there are the ‘others’.  You are competing with women who talk to anyone about ANY SUBJECT no matter how disgusting or illegal. They work 24/7 and never sleep through the night without being interupted by the phone.

If you can do that, then uh…go ahead.

But, I suggest discovering your limits and being a healthy balanced person while making decent money.

In the long run, the damage can be as costly as the taxes.  OH, and on that note:

Self-employment tax is about 28% plus any state income tax you pay. So, 100k is really 70k.

Good Luck! Any questions, feel free to:

Contact Me for more info.

Candy

 

Phone Sex Professionalism

By far the most obvious mistake brand new NiteFlirt operators make is not being professional. 

Well, you say, “I’m not a professional”.  What I mean by professional is acting professional in emails, responding to emails, reading the emails you’re being sent and responding accordingly.  If you receive an email from a fellow flirt, especially when you’re new to the business; she is reaching out to HELP YOU.

I can tell you in one email to a new flirt whether she will make it or not!  Why? Because, if you’re not even reading the emails being sent to you there is no way you can respond effectively enough to get the customer to call you.  If you haven’t taken the time to read the screen name who sent that email-you aren’t invested enough to run your own business.  If you don’t read an email, then you won’t take the time to listen to your callers and you will fail them and yourself.

THAT means you are a NOT an EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATOR.

Phone Sex is about communication.

If there is any one lesson you learn from reading this post, it should be to READ, LISTEN, ASK QUESTIONS then respond.  Every single customer who comes to you will have a very personal issue, want, need or feeling he wants YOU to communicate with or back to him.

Can you read an email and respond?  Have you received emails and simple written back without reading them?  Have you written back without FULLY UNDERSTANDING the email?  Did you write back something like: “hey, call me”.  (?)

Well, all I can say is, you have wasted your time joining NiteFlirt.  Bye bye.

When I was new in the field, and this is my 11th year on NiteFlirt, I wrote back almost every single customer with a professional sounding email using basic business language:

Thank you for contacting me.  I look forward to talking to you.  I appreciate your attention…the list goes on and one.  If you are so young and uneducated that you don’t know these terms, it’s time to start googleing ‘professional greetings and saluatations’.

Good Luck!

Regards,

Candy

 

NiteFlirt Front Page

Read the comment by my recent NiteFlirt Listing Design/Training client:

I reed your info about niteflirt front page and it sounds just like me! Yes I have been that girl through the exact same steps also!! I always believed and still do that the profile must be featured on the 2 front pages. I have experimented and been on a first page under a extra kinky or fin dom category, not the main nf front pages, but with that it seems I just stay up there awhile get clicked but no calls. 

  Over the years I have witnessed the same pattern when new flirts come onto NiteFlirt advertising themselves on the front page of the site.  While you will likely make some money at first, eventually it stops working and the same ol’ patterns develop.  Once the pattern evolves into a complete loss of calls and income, most flirts quit.  Some don’t…those who don’t can still make money but you will need help.

NITEFLIRT FRONT PAGE ADVERTISING PATTERN.

New Flirt adds a few lines on her listing and a thumbnail PAYS FOR PLACEMENT IN Find Women.
New Flirt sets her rate too high, realizes it’s not working…lowers her rate.
New Flirt gets calls.  Mostly short ones and gets guys off fast! Thinks that’s right….:(
New Flirt gets some bad feedback and realizes she needs to be more professional (finally)
New Flirt makes some money from many short calls and gains a higher LVS…lol whatever that is.
New Flirt gets some ratings points (internal ‘reward’)
New Flirt KEEPS PAYING FOR PLACEMENT (that’s the hook of ‘rewards’, how much did it cost u?) 
New Flirt maybe…makes more than she’s spending and if she’s dirty enough makes good money
New Flirt sits on the front page day after day week after week PAYING FOR PLACEMENT
New Flirt starts to see other NiteFlirt operators bidding high amounts and pushes her off front page
New Flirt pays more!!! After all, it’s been working for her. She thinks being number 1 is key
New Flirt month or so after coming onto front page gaining ratings points see’s it’s costing more to be on front page in top spot.
New Flirt pays more!!!! Now that lil gold star is costing you more too!
New Flirt stops seeing more income to outgoing fees for front placement. She settles for 1st 2 pages 
New Flirt thinks its’ her listing so she changes THUMBNAIL to show more flesh
New Flirt doesn’t see change…it’s now slow and she’s paying even higher fees!
New Flirt changes LISTING DESIGN or adds more pornographic text to her listing
New Flirt still get’s charged more for front page placement because her listing is changed and more flirts are bidding (some on purpose to push her off front page) higher to be on front page.
New Flirt lowers rate, still calls are not what they used to be
New Flirt adds new listings because a new listing costs less than one she was using. No calls.
New Flirt has no clue what happened!
Money now not what it was…she’s thinking she’s not nasty enough, not doing a good job and starts doubting herself or becomes paranoid that NiteFlirt has done something.

Flirt starts adding different photos.  Flirt starts working less hours.  Flirt settles for lower placement.

Flirt quits or comes into the forums asking, “what happened, I was making money and getting calls and now nothing”?

Experienced flirts critique her listing, her thumbnails, her marketing and respond, some kindly some unkindly.  Flirt loses all hope and now feels business is bad and other flirts suck.

Flirt quits.

I am currently watching this trend with a flirt (May 1, 2018) today she uploaded her new thumbnail, and changed the listing category because it was getting too expensive for the one she’s been using.

WHAT HAPPENED?
New Flirt got calls for 2 reasons:

First, the men who call from the front page want somone quick and dirty, cheap and easy. They won’t remember you.  Your fast food.  Unmemorable, but you got the job done.

Secondly, they won’t call you back because it wasn’t about getting to know you-you didn’t have a marketing plan and build a lasting relationship with these callers because you lack good salesmenship skills and don’t know how to ask for the repeat call.

You offered yourself up to the bad customer, and you were new to the one’s who thought, “hey, maybe she hasn’t heard my fantasy that I have told to hundreds of phone sex operators for years” and it was a nice long call.  They always are with that guy.  Problem is, that guy needs new flirts all the time.

Need help building a long term business in phone sex?
Contact me, SexyKinkyCandy on NiteFlirt or here on my website which you found on Google.

I can help.